Take me as I am...or watch me as I go*
@Merliva (3540)
San Marino
September 14, 2020 4:40pm CST
Too often people asked others to change so many things about themselves so that they can fit in but it's not about fitting in ...you should not want to fit in.
You should want to be yourself.
Honestly I'm clumsy and that's just fine because am not perfect.
I smile at people that I don't want to smile for ...
It's really difficult for me to hold the smile in even when I tell myself don't smile.
People usually call me smiley face which I don't like but again am not perfect.
I'm really shy when I first meat someone but when I get comfortable I be myself and NOT the quiet girl who's afraid to speak. I'm not perfect ..
I'm afraid to speak infront of large crowds,
I get nervous and i choke on most of my words and some words fail to come out ....I'm not perfect ..
I put up with alot from people that I should really not tolerate because I always because people might change...and i always end up getting hurt....I'm not perfect ...
I hurt people feelings and i have done bad things also but i accept all those things about myself and the rest because that's who i am.
Better yourself Yes!!!
But do it for yourself not to please someone else.
If you are bettering yourself just to please someone else then What s the point?
Don't change who you are for anyone just improve yourself for yourself...
Let them take you as you are or watch you as you go
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2 responses
@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
15 Sep 20
What I can see is that you are a reflective human being which is awesome! I encourage you to be yourself all the time. People who love you will value you no matter what!
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@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
16 Sep 20
@jvicentevalera am really smiling right now.
Thank you so much ...I really do appreciate you caring
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
16 Sep 20
@Merliva that's what I always wanna hear from you. You are a valuable human being always tell yourself that!
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@sharonelton (30756)
• Lichfield, England
15 Sep 20
There's nothing wrong with smiling. I'm really shy too, and I can relate to what you said about meeting people.
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@sharonelton (30756)
• Lichfield, England
15 Sep 20
@Merliva Yes, I can understand that.
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