Why younger generation not showing interest in their marraige life
By Lavanya
@Lavanya15 (12888)
Chennai, India
September 27, 2020 12:23am CST
Hi friends. One mental stress going in my home due to one of my relative sudden behavior changes.
My brother's sister's son, we arrange marriage. He also agrees that girl and fixes a date and book marriage hall too.
But now he says he does not have any interest in marriage life I live alone, I don't want marriage. Pls, leave me alone.
Some times he saying he live like a Saint, not u understanding what we do now.
Not understanding why he saying like that. He is well educated and well-satelled family too. Not having any financial struggles also.
Their parents start crying and want to talk to him. Do my hubby and his mother going there for talking to him.
Can I know your opinion and suggestions to handle his behavior.
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16 responses
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
If he does not prepare before starting a process he needs to tell, but he telling after finishing the arrangement of marriage.
It is not a good thing
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
@piyushbhatia1 may be. On coming days to close to his marriage he getting more tension on thinking about new life.
@piyushbhatia1 (11698)
• India
27 Sep 20
@Lavanya15 this means he has is not capable enough to handle big decisions such as marriage
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@Hannihar (129686)
• Israel
27 Sep 20
@Lavanya15
Arranged marriages are very hard. People need to choose who they want to be with and that may not work out either. People have to work hard at marriage and not everyone wants to.
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@Hannihar (129686)
• Israel
27 Sep 20
@Lavanya15
Maybe he does not want to get married or maybe he wants to wait. Why does he think he is a saint?
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
But he won't have any life with any girl, that's why we go for an arranged marriage.
Here not a problem with love or arrange marriage, here the problem is thinking to become a Saint lol
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
@Hannihar, not understanding. He saying he becomes a saint, not a family man.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
27 Sep 20
@Lavanya15 He may not want to marry anyone.
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
@DianneN yes now saying like that. Bit not saying any reason for taking like that decision,
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@amitkokiladitya (171935)
• Agra, India
27 Sep 20
Many people are afraid for living a life of responsibility. I hope he understands the importance of family.
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@amitkokiladitya (171935)
• Agra, India
29 Sep 20
@Lavanya15 why .what happened..is he not interested in girls?
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
29 Sep 20
@amitkokiladitya he getting fear on start new life lol. No other reason. Now he is ok.
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
Hope for that. After talking with him, maybe he took right decision
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
Here what media playing role lol. Not
understanding your point
@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
27 Sep 20
@Lavanya15 it distracts us from focusing on anything and try t avoid responsibility!!!!
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
8 Oct 20
Well we are not into arranged marriages nowadays and just let our sons and daughters find their future partners in life. There are others who really enjoy living single and we do not force them to change status if they do not feel comfortable being in married life. l think you give him/her some space than force her to marry she does not feel to marry.
@snowy22315 (171277)
• United States
27 Sep 20
I don't know but people are allowed to change their minds. The worst thing to do is try to force someone to do something they don't want to do.
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
Well said, my friend. Now they always changing their mindset, .
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
No, their parent doesn't fight, they are happy loving couples. We know very well about it.
First, he agree on marriage, he shows interest too. But suddenly he behaves like this from the last two days.
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
Yes I agree but he not telling anything. Always telling not interest. But before he is to marry after fixing a date he saying llike this.
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
Maybe but he not telling anything, that's the problem with him. Without telling anything we cont help him
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@Gnana_Helps (522)
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27 Sep 20
I think someone close to him or his family are having marital issues. It can be friends also. Try to talk to him.
One reason why one of my friends doesn't like to get married is she is afraid of the responsibility that comes with it.
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
27 Sep 20
We also now thinking from that side too. Hope soon we get the reason for his sudden changes.
@sarik1 (6797)
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29 Sep 20
It is true fact. today now time is changed. my cousin brother son have not still marriage.he is alone and working duty work.today difficult understanding to them.
