being traumatic of love
By kimsoo
@Alsabila (28)
September 30, 2020 6:59am CST
this time I want to tell you about what I feel right now.
now there is a boy who approached me, he is good but I'm not sure if I can open my heart to him. honestly I'm traumatized by a relationship like this. before, I was abandoned by a person I loved for a long time, he married another woman. even though we have been in love together for a very long time. we loved each other at that time. I've been hurt several times. I was left without cause and said goodbye. This is what makes me afraid to open my heart again to a new man.
i really confuse with this feeling, one side i feel lonely and need someone who love me, but on the other side i feel scare to be in a relationship
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3 responses
@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
30 Sep 20
Just listen to your heart not your head
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@Overflowing (3710)
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30 Sep 20
Its normal that you feel both,trust your guts and ask God if it is the right relationship so you eill not be afraid to open up your heart again..by the way welcome to myLot ma friend,i hope you enjoy your time here communicating with different nationalities around the world and learning some cultures,have fun ma friend
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@sharonelton (25111)
• Lichfield, England
30 Sep 20
I'm sorry about that. I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 12 and I'm now 51. And my boyfriend when I was 12 was two timing me with my best friend.
My advice to you is go with the guy but be cautious. Only open up to him when you get to know him and you feel that you can trust him.
