Tell me what it's like to be a mother

October 5, 2020 9:51pm CST
my dream was always to be a mother, but I was always afraid of not being able to take care of someone, of not finding the right time to have a baby. I hope you can tell me about your pregnancy and motherhood!
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@rakski (156651)
• Philippines
6 Oct 20
Hello @anacris0208 Welcome to mylot! First maybe you can read the FAQ
This is where we'll answer frequently asked questions about myLot
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@rakski (156651)
• Philippines
6 Oct 20
To be a mother is difficult but it can give you satisfaction and happiness money cannot give
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7 Oct 20
@rakski I imagine it must be a love like no other
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@rakski (156651)
• Philippines
7 Oct 20
@anacris0208 true and more that cannot be explained by words
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Oct 20
Welcome to myLot. I worried about it too before I became a mother for the first time. Pregnancy changes you. You find yourself anxious to hold that little one and keep it safe and be the best mother you can be. Now, I'm a grandmother and great-grandmother.
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7 Oct 20
how beautiful, congratulations for your family
@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 20
Welcome to myLot. I love being a mother, though there are always challenges and tears, there are joys and growing too. I didn't know how to take care of a baby until my first child. I guess willingness to learn is important. I just started to learn when my first child was born, and I am still learning how to take care of my three kids now as there are different "requirements" and challenges for each stage. You can always talk to the mothers and learn more about ways to take care of your kids, and find your own way. Though I don't really think it's sacrificing, being a parent means you need to give up something - When the baby is crying, you need to give up your sleep or rest and take care of him, etc. Being mentally ready is important, and I suppose we have to be physically ready as well. There are lots to talk about being a mother... hope you'll find your own way.
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7 Oct 20
thank you very much for the answer, I really admire all the care that mothers have with their children
@iKONICNoona (4404)
• Philippines
8 Oct 20
@anacris0208 Hello Welcome to mylot ! Hope you enjoy your stay here ! You have a nice discussion .I have dreams of becoming a mother too but it didn't happen . I guess each of us has their own perfect timing for being a mother.