"Can YOU work with HARSH TERMS?"

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
October 14, 2020 10:01pm CST
When I was still working in China, one of my bosses is so mean when motivating her subordinates. For me, it was fine to deal with her rants at work. The only thing that I did not like it is when she blurted harsh terms. It was not acceptable so I confronted her and informed her that it is not ethical. Eventually, she never attempted to do this scene again. Besides the point, she needs to act professionally with her followers. Is it fine to work with a boss who uses hash terms? Did you have any problems with your current or former bosses? Image Credit: website-assets.teamwork.com
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• India
15 Oct 20
That's not easy and better to leave those jobs where the boss is harsh
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I did change my jobs because of this concern previously. I cannot deal with this kind of boss.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Oct 20
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• India
15 Oct 20
@Shavkat me too
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@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I really admire you for having the guts to stand up to her. I admire. I think you can teach me a thing or two. I have trouble standing up for myself.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I think we can break free from concealing what runs into our minds, especially if it is not right. I must admit that I am an introvert. But then, I tried to improve myself to be an ambivert. Because of this kind of person, I need to be strong in defending myself.
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Oct 20
@yoalldudes I am sure you can break free from being one. I learned to fight back when being scrutinized big time by other people. My biological parents taught us to be strong enough to defend ourselves.
@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
@Shavkat I think I am an ambivert to but I came became an introvert when I wasnt able to stand for myself during a bullying. I had reasons though because I was helpless at that time being broke and just gave birth, I was very weak to fight.
@rsa101 (40968)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
Of course it is not hood to have a boss that uses fear and coercion in leading his subordinates. l think it demotivates people and productivity maybe affected and the morale will be severely affected by it.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I agree. She thought that I will be in fear when being like this. I was so young back then and it was my first time to work in a business industry.
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@shaggin (74988)
• United States
15 Oct 20
Wow that’s really awesome that you speaking up actually worked and got her to change her actions!
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Oct 20
She needs to stop because she is barking at professional people.
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
18 Oct 20
My current boss uses them often but I need a job so I just move on.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Oct 20
I think it is best to find a new job if a boss is like this.
@rakski (156372)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I never believe a good boss should have this kind of attitude towards his/her subordinates
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
At first, I thought it was fine. Eventually, I got fed up dealing with her fuss in the working place.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Oct 20
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@rakski (156372)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
@Shavkat at least someone confronted her about it
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@psanasangma (7910)
• India
15 Oct 20
When you are in working environment ,requirement and capacity of saying Yes or No need to be executed otherwise, other person use for any works without giving credits
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I must say my colleagues and I were competent enough with our job responsibilities. However, she thinks that it is not enough. Or, she just pushing us to do beyond the service agreement to this company, which is not a good thing to pressure the subordinates.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
I think it will not affect much for me if I am not the person directed with but that would surely leave a very bad impression towards her nothing that the person is a superior and should learn professionalism and ethics at the working environment.
@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
15 Oct 20
It is difficult to work with such a boss
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
It is really difficult to work with this kind of person.
• India
15 Oct 20
When someone does that to me
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Oct 20
Then, what are young to do?
• India
15 Oct 20