Where is JUSTICE?

@chamae (71)
October 17, 2020 7:55am CST
Way back 2016 my cousin offered me a very big break for me..she appoint me to be the acting manager of her clothing company but then at same time my younger sister ask favor from me she said can u not accept the offer coz she said she will be going to China for her training no ones gonna take care of our canteen that time..so I did chose to stay instead of accepting my cousins offer.. I said to myself yes i need job but my sister need my help and she said she'll be paying me if i stay so i stayed but right after i rejected my cousins offer my sister said she wont be going to china anymore so i was really shocked but my sister said dont worry i still pay you for choosing to stay with us. Years have passed i wasnt paid at all but instead i was accused and blame of the bankruptcy of the canteen even shes the one handling all the financial statement..i was just there as help in customer service so i asked...WHERE'S THE JUSTICE? I gave up my own big break offered by my cousin for her and i was put to blame.I am living with her together with my kids and hoping i can get something from my stay there while working for her but got nothing..i wanna go somewhere else but cant go anywhere because of my situation im totally broke. But just last year of October 2019 one thing I didnt expected that my sister do to me is choking me infront of my son just because of a key.I DIDNT KNOW what just happen I was sleeping and she wokes me up coz she cant open the gate ofcourse i just woke up i got angry and had realized why she have to wake me up if infact she have her own key and then grab my neck choke me and what i hate more is when she choked me infront of my son....WHERE IS JUSTICE but i just let her do what she want coz shes my younger sister...and i just prayed.GOD FORGIVE MY SISTER...
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@Raine38 (9499)
• United States
17 Oct
I agree with @MALUSE, separating your post into paragraphs will make it easier to read. Anyway, this is one of the reasons why I am picky when doing business with family. If I have an inkling or a sliver of doubt about our goals or if I suspect that we do not share the same work ethic and business goals, I will not get involved. It will not be worth the fall-out and headaches. I am a small business partner of my sister's online shop but she has a good grasp of the operations. She and I are also on the same page about finances. We also agree on some arrangements, like she did not quit her practice to go full-time in the business because we both agree that it is better to have multiple income sources. She lives in the Philippines, by the way, so communication is key. She is also my younger sister, but she knows how to respect me. I guess we both respect one another so we rarely have any friction. I am sorry to hear that she did that to you. Nothing is more painful than to have the people you care about turn against you. She is probably stressed out with the state of her business, but I don't think it's reason enough for her to do that to you. Do you still live with her? Does your other family members know what she did to you?
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@MALUSE (62446)
• Germany
17 Oct
Thank you for the support!
@chamae (71)
17 Oct
They know.Even my mom knows but you know what is the saddest part is all of them turn against on me.I didnt know what i did wrong to them All i do is always put them first before myself.I can't hate them instead forgive what they do to me.
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@Raine38 (9499)
• United States
17 Oct
@chamae You can always forgive, but never forget. It is not just you anymore that is getting affected, but your children as well. That is a very toxic relationship, I hope you get a chance to be free of them. Otherwise, there is a possibility that your children will think that these behavior are normal, and one of them thinks that choking their sibling is okay since he witnessed it. Be strong for them, work hard and I am sure that this too shall pass.
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@Nakitakona (36507)
• Philippines
18 Oct
You can find justice if it's a family affair. You can't even file a complaint in court for it's a verbal agreement between you and your sister. So there's no justice. Let time heals.
@chamae (71)
18 Oct
yes u can!most especially if u got proof but even if i have proof I won't do because she is still my sister...i was born to love not to hate.if she continues hating me cursing me that's up to her..she will be forgiven cause i know I am not GOD to not forgive her... THank you by the way of sharing your thoughts..??
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@Nakitakona (36507)
• Philippines
18 Oct
@chamae That's right. Blood is thicker than water.
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@MALUSE (62446)
• Germany
17 Oct
I can't read your post. Can you please divide the text into several paragraphs to make it more readable? Not only members with glasses will be grateful.
@chamae (71)
17 Oct
im sorry for that...but thank you for response..
@rhuenz (7382)
17 Oct
Sorry to hear about your bad experienced with your sister, It's difficult to live with family members and be dependent on them,your rights will be defeated. Better separate and find another job.
@chamae (71)
17 Oct
guess thats too complicated..but im good now im working earning decent
• United States
17 Oct
I'm sorry about your situation with your sister