Beating children.

By mom
@NoorNoor (2131)
India
November 18, 2020 9:15am CST
I am wondering how to say no to children if they want something beyond our limits or how to correct them if they have some bad habits or something you parents want to change them Without beating them.In India we used to beat children to correct them.But it is changing slowly.Nowadays educated people are increasing.So they are not rude and they don't control their children.They are reasoning with children. But sometimes cant avoid to beat children.Because that is how we raised.And that is what we see in our day to day life.Even teachers used to beat children.I was beaten by my teacher when I was in 4th grade.But our government dont allow any beating of children.I hope this practice is happening in East counties only not in west countries. So How do you raise your children without beating them?
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• Midland, Michigan
18 Nov 20
It was never supposed to be a beating but a way to wake the child up so they would listen to our instruction. Some kids are more willful than others. Many here in America withhold favorite things like playing games or watching tv as punishment when a child doesn't obey. It's probably okay to scold children just so the parents aren't yelling. I had a six month old daughter once that was heading toward a flower pot. She looked back at me like she knew she was wrong. If we begin training then when they are young then as they get older it should be a bit easier.
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
19 Nov 20
Beating is not ok but scolding is way better. I think it is a best punishment withhold their favourite things and not being physically hurt them.Yes training in young should be easier when they get old.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
20 Nov 20
Yes. I dislike to beat children. My niece and nephew... Inhave never beaten them. Very rare once I slapped ny nephew and that also not in anger. But just to teach him something that he understands. I never get angry on children. My niece and nephew don't believe that i can even beat And the best thing is that they even listen to us, they're disciplined and very obeying kids. So I believe Beating does no good at all
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
21 Nov 20
@NoorNoor yes. We should be strict to them that they listen to us at first. No need should be there to say again and again
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
21 Nov 20
Yes.....That is nice to know.I think it is hard not to get anger with kids at some point.And it is ok to give them some kind of punishments without hurting them physically.
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@prinzcy (32326)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 20
I'm not the right person to advise you. I don't beat my younger siblings, but I tend to things another way instead. Once I dragged Lil Bro to be tied up to a tree after he cursed and called someone a pig. That's insult in our language. I told him, I'll tied him up and let him be acquaintance with the wild pigs since he like them so much.
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
19 Nov 20
I cant think of what you did to your little brother.But I hope it is okay not hurting them physically.
@prinzcy (32326)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 20
@NoorNoor of course. There's a clear line between that after all.
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@SHOHANA (16096)
• Bangladesh
19 Nov 20
Kids are like soft clay you can give them any kind of shape, so beating is not the solution
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
19 Nov 20
That is very true.
@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
18 Nov 20
I was beaten often growing up ...with wires, belt,slippers,sticks, wipes and alot more to be honest
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
18 Nov 20
Oh I am sorry to hear this.and I dont accept this kind of treatments from parents.I hope you will not treat your children like this.
• India
18 Nov 20
Haha yeah it used to be a daily routine to got myself beaten by mom or dad . These days parents don't beat most of the times
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
18 Nov 20
Ha ha.... I guess boys get beaten more than girls. And yes parents don't beat mostly nowadays which is a good thing.
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• India
18 Nov 20
@NoorNoor haha yeah it's good for kids but that's making kids indisciplined
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@GooglePlus (3809)
18 Nov 20
I think most of us were raised been beaten by parents. Till I was in 12th I got beaten up by my teachers . Later I came to know that any kind of physical touch from Teacher is prohibited with new rule.
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
18 Nov 20
Yes that is true And I was happy about the rule when I heard for the first time.