Why is this My Lot in Life

By Arya
@yoalldudes (26509)
Philippines
November 21, 2020 4:19am CST
I dont know why I have all the hardships and pain I went through in life. I tried my best. But dont we all. I guess life is just so hard sometimes. I love my hubby and I want to be with him. I am the happiest with him and our daughter. But then why do we have this moments when we lash out on each other and all the hate and hurt is hurled at each other.
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12 responses
@rakski (70387)
• Philippines
21 Nov
we all have our ups and downs. It is both your choice if you want to make it work.
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@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Thank you for your kind advice.
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@rakski (70387)
• Philippines
22 Nov
@yoalldudes I hope everything will be okay with you
@sharon6345 (256948)
• United States
21 Nov
when I felt that way about mine I knew it was time to leave. I would always want a man to leave me if he felt the need to lash out at me. I can't see myself laying down with a man after we shared those kinds of feelings. I am not comfortable with that.
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@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
I feel vulnerable being alone as a woman. I wish I can find the courage. Thank you for your support.
@sharon6345 (256948)
• United States
21 Nov
@yoalldudes You will in time.
@ARIES1973 (9881)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Nov
Relationship, in order to work requires mutual effort from both parties. You can talk to him and try to settle things that would be beneficial to both of you.
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@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Ideally, yes. In reality, one has limitations. Thanks for sharing.
@Cheyee (4043)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
21 Nov
Marriage is not a rainbow and sunshine. There's a good time and the bad time. It's like riding bicycles, you need two feet to make it works. You can't do it alone. It's about balance.
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@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Easier said than done.
@Nakitakona (38519)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Well that's the nature of a married life.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Are you married too if you dont mind me asking?
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@Nakitakona (38519)
• Philippines
21 Nov
@yoalldudes Yes. I'm married for 48 years now.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
@Nakitakona You made it work, cool.
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@miketagz (9903)
• Philippines
21 Nov
You can discuss the problem with your hubby. The important thing is both of you are loyal and honesty.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
22 Nov
@miketagz I dont know. I feel tired.
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@miketagz (9903)
• Philippines
22 Nov
@yoalldudes I think you need some rest because you seem to have a fatigue due to overwork. Dont forget to drink a lots of water.
• Philippines
22 Nov
I guess you need to have a heart to heart talk with your husband.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
22 Nov
At the moment, I just want to relax and feel better. Im too exhausted. My mother suffering in pain from ulcer in the hospital is weighing me down.
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• Philippines
23 Nov
@yoalldudes I hope she gets better.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
23 Nov
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@moonandstars (46930)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Nov
maybe some connecting or counseling.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
22 Nov
Hello SS. Nice for you to drop by. Have a nice Sunday. When something is fundamentally wrong no amount of counseling will do.
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• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
23 Nov
@yoalldudes thank you and i hope you had it too. well, i feel this with my sibling for almost for a decade so, i understand you. if you can't take it anymore, do what's best for you just, stay well and in peace
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
24 Nov
@moonandstars I'm sorry about you and your sibling. Thank you for your support.
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@tech40 (22848)
• Philippines
22 Nov
Every day isn't a birthday like our feeling. Not every day that we're happy. Sometimes the sadness will come especially when we miss doing something that we're doing before, but this is what life is.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
22 Nov
I hope to find happiness again. I will.
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@tech40 (22848)
• Philippines
22 Nov
@yoalldudes I'm sure you will. Everything is just temporary
@Janet357 (63283)
21 Nov
If is normal my dear. All marriages have the same problem, you are not exempted. Also, you are still.fortunate because you have a family, a job and so on. Not all people have these.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Thank you for trying to comfort me.
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@Janet357 (63283)
21 Nov
@yoalldudes welcome. but that is the reality of life.
@sophie09 (32670)
• Indonesia
22 Nov
im sorry about that. i hope things will be better in no time
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
22 Nov
Thank you for the well wishes. Have a nice Sunday.
• Philippines
21 Nov
This place is the closest I have not for a diary / journal.
@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
I might be treating it as a journal as well