Why is this My Lot in Life

By Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
Philippines
November 21, 2020 4:19am CST
I dont know why I have all the hardships and pain I went through in life. I tried my best. But dont we all. I guess life is just so hard sometimes. I love my hubby and I want to be with him. I am the happiest with him and our daughter. But then why do we have this moments when we lash out on each other and all the hate and hurt is hurled at each other.
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9 responses
rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
we all have our ups and downs. It is both your choice if you want to make it work.
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
Thank you for your kind advice.
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
@yoalldudes I hope everything will be okay with you
ARIES1973
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Nov 20
Relationship, in order to work requires mutual effort from both parties. You can talk to him and try to settle things that would be beneficial to both of you.
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
Ideally, yes. In reality, one has limitations. Thanks for sharing.
Jandie
@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
Every day isn't a birthday like our feeling. Not every day that we're happy. Sometimes the sadness will come especially when we miss doing something that we're doing before, but this is what life is.
Jandie
@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
@yoalldudes I'm sure you will. Everything is just temporary
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
I hope to find happiness again. I will.
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G
@freelancermariagrace (27240)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
I guess you need to have a heart to heart talk with your husband.
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
At the moment, I just want to relax and feel better. Im too exhausted. My mother suffering in pain from ulcer in the hospital is weighing me down.
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G
@freelancermariagrace (27240)
• Philippines
23 Nov 20
@yoalldudes I hope she gets better.
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
23 Nov 20
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
Well that's the nature of a married life.
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
Are you married too if you dont mind me asking?
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
@Nakitakona You made it work, cool.
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
@yoalldudes Yes. I'm married for 48 years now.
Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8362)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
21 Nov 20
Marriage is not a rainbow and sunshine. There's a good time and the bad time. It's like riding bicycles, you need two feet to make it works. You can't do it alone. It's about balance.
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
Easier said than done.
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51537)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
This place is the closest I have not for a diary / journal.
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
I might be treating it as a journal as well
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
•
21 Nov 20
If is normal my dear. All marriages have the same problem, you are not exempted. Also, you are still.fortunate because you have a family, a job and so on. Not all people have these.
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
•
21 Nov 20
@yoalldudes welcome. but that is the reality of life.
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
21 Nov 20
Thank you for trying to comfort me.
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sophie a
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 20
im sorry about that. i hope things will be better in no time
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
22 Nov 20
Thank you for the well wishes. Have a nice Sunday.