It's not a Question of Love
By Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
Philippines
December 3, 2020 6:51am CST
I realized you can still love a person but need to live separately from him/her if the relationship is doing you harm.
Sometimes, we love a person too much or has become accustomed to habits and dependent on each other so that people stay in the relationship and endure the damage being inflicted towards each other.
When 2 persons have been together, a strong bond is formed especially if there are kids involved. Your memories have been filled with being with this person and tearing the relationship apart will cause you to bleed, metaphorically.
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3 responses
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
3 Dec 20
Living and loving entail a life. It is important the couples do get into friendship, courtship, and engagement before sealing the relationship with a bond called marriage. By this time, each would have known the other to be with each other for a lifetime.
If in any of the stages before marriage one has seen something not likeable nor livable, no need to proceed to marriage. Divorce is not an option.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
3 Dec 20
That is true. Getting to know the other person with open mind and heart is essential. This is the more conservative view.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
4 Dec 20
@eileenleyva Yes, there are many beliefs and for the Catholic Christian that is the belief.
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@kay990 (373)
• Zambia
3 Dec 20
I totally agree with you especially if you did everything together.moving on can be so hard .but if it’s doing you harm you are better off alone.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
3 Dec 20
I believe being alone can also empower you, it makes you become independent and see what you are capable of.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
4 Dec 20
@kay990 Thank you for supporting my idea.
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@kay990 (373)
• Zambia
4 Dec 20
@yoalldudes so true. Being alone makes you discover that you are stronger than you know it ??
