I love my dog but i wish i hadn't!!

India
January 3, 2021 11:04pm CST
Its with heavy heart I am opening myself. Even admitting to myself I shouldn't ever had a dog in first place. He is a gift to ourselves on our wedding and that's where everything went wrong. We could never travel for more than 3 days(i cooked his food for all the days, left in refrigerator for my dad to give him) in our 10 years of married life and never plan to as long as he is with us. None of our parents love him and there aren't many pet fosters or hostels available in our place. I am frustrated and suffocated as we wanna go and settle out of country, but dunno what to do with him. He is our responsibility and i am not someone who shys away from that. But that is putting me in this horrible condition. Can someone guide? Am I a horrible person?
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Jan 21
Post it in social media to be adopted. It is really so hard if you are long been attached to your pet because they are already like part of the family. They have feelings too and they do love they human that feeds them.
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• India
4 Jan 21
Yeah exactly what worries the most. Will he understand why and if i am to give him away?
@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward If the one who will adopt your pet is kind enough to give the same love you showed her then it will give you relief and will free you up with that heavy feeling of guilt in giving her to others.
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward If the one who will adopt your dog will show the same love you are giving her then it is a relief on you. You don't have to feel the guilt of giving her to others since you did not allow her to just be out of the street just so as to free yourself up with your responsibility to her.
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@jstory07 (135121)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jan 21
You could find your dog another good home.
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• India
4 Jan 21
Will he be okay with the changes? Will he know i love him but i am helpless
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@jstory07 (135121)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward A person that really wants him will be nice to him.
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward yes for sure, if the life given to her is so satisfying. He is just like a kid who forgets.
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