Do you talk to respond or to listen?
By Bella
@BellaEdward (215)
India
4 responses
@jstory07 (135127)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward I try to change the subject.
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@BellaEdward (215)
• India
4 Jan 21
@jstory07 i tell them i am getting another call and ends the call ??
@BellaEdward (215)
• India
4 Jan 21
True. But can you always give your best when the other person talks too much
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward of course you will be more composed. Cool.
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@Sam_graphixer (2457)
• India
4 Jan 21
i try to listen and understand the perspective ... though at times i get angry but then again compose nd try to understand
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@BellaEdward (215)
• India
4 Jan 21
it is great if you can control yourself and compose.
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@BellaEdward (215)
• India
4 Jan 21
@Sam_graphixer I have anxiety and depression. May be because of that I am frustrated most of the time.
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@Sam_graphixer (2457)
• India
4 Jan 21
@BellaEdward it damn tough ... sometimes things do went wrong ... i have hard times with my anger problems ... Do you have anger issue?
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Jan 21
I am a good listener, I am hungry of input 
. You have to be a fighter in a psywar. Just listen first and know when you will enter. Putting all your wordings inside of you will build up and soon will burst hitting him like bullets that hurt more and harm more and that might be forever putting to an end all future conversation between you and your husband. So when the atmosphere is getting hotter, take a deep breath, inhale, exhale and do that outside your home
. You have to be a fighter in a psywar. Just listen first and know when you will enter. Putting all your wordings inside of you will build up and soon will burst hitting him like bullets that hurt more and harm more and that might be forever putting to an end all future conversation between you and your husband. So when the atmosphere is getting hotter, take a deep breath, inhale, exhale and do that outside your home1 person likes this
@BellaEdward (215)
• India
5 Jan 21
True, having too much building up inside is going to harm me. I am planning to start do something for mindfullness.
