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Coffee
@rhuenz (10646)
January 13, 2021 3:18am CST
Door bell rang, I am in the room, Monster in-inlaw is in her room too. The helper went to open the door, As she open the door,I heard the man came said to helper that make coffee! My goodness,who is this man to command,! He is just a worker that this oldie is paying. He cannot wait that we will serve tea or coffee? Did you experience someone came into your house and once he entered he/she will demand coffee? What shall I say,
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
13 Jan 21
Sounds to me like he feels like someone who should be treated and revered differently. I hate it when people treat others in a very crappy way. On a different note, when are you going to move away from your in-law?
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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13 Jan 21
That's making me frustrated again! Supposed to be after this January. I'll update soon. Thanks for asking.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
13 Jan 21
@rhuenz Hopefully that happens. I know how much you want to move already.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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13 Jan 21
@Raine38 thanks
hereandthere
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
when you say worker, you mean like trabahador for house repairs? then yes, he's quite arrogant to demand coffee as soon as he arrives.
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hereandthere
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
@rhuenz but maybe he is a relative that's why he behaves differently
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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13 Jan 21
@hereandthere no,he is not a relative. They are workers she hired for home beautification.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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13 Jan 21
Exactly,and I don't like it.
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Notlilie
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
14 Jan 21
Never have such experience. Maybe it's because I'm a bit antisocial to begin with and I don't really like people just show up at my house. If they're here invited by me, I would already serve them drink and snacks upon arriving.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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14 Jan 21
We too serve here for guess but this man just entered and didn't sit yet for a minute. He cannot wait us.
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msdivkar
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
13 Jan 21
Bad mannered guest if it was a guest who ordered the helper to make a coffee.
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msdivkar
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
13 Jan 21
@rhuenz We can't understand the behaviour of some people.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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13 Jan 21
You're right,he just came here for work ,it's not good manner right after he entered and command the helper.
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
14 Jan 21
Well, it's improper to command anyone in the house for he is a hired worker. He should wait whether he may be offered a drink or not.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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14 Jan 21
Definitely that's improper way.
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
15 Jan 21
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Sexy Girl
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 21
If we have someone in the house we usually offer coffee. Who is Monster in Law?
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Sexy Girl
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
14 Jan 21
@rhuenz oh dear not good lol
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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14 Jan 21
@JimBo452020 ha.ha,,..that's the right term
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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14 Jan 21
Same here. Mother of husband
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (57664)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 21
I've never encountered that kind of problem. However, I think I'd say 'no'.
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Iza
@eliza_godinez12 (5567)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
No, never had same experience before..
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10646)
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13 Jan 21
Okay
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solxee
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
It depends on how someone say it. But still demanding lol
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