I DON'T LIKE MY Birthdays
By RM
@RitzzView (3041)
India
February 9, 2021 5:28am CST
There was time, when I was a kid of course, that I used to like my bithday SOOOO much. I would tell everyone that my birthday is coming and start planning from 2 months prior.
Now, I hate it. I don't even like someone saying "happy birthday's"
I delete or uninstall my whatsaap beforehand, expecting people don't wish me. I have not mentioned it in my facebook too....
What about you? You like your birthdays or hate them??
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8 responses
@Juliaacv (54717)
• Canada
10 Feb 21
@RitzzView Thanks.
My favorite birthday was about 6 or 7 years ago. It as on a Sunday, and my hubby had me out the door very early. He took me for breakfast, and then he asked if I'd like to take a nice summer's drive. Of course I agreed, but the drive was a long one. We ended up along a lake and he and I sat on a bench up on the upper deck overlooking the lake and the next thing that I knew someone came up behind me and put their hands over my eyes and whispered in my ear, guess who? It was our son and his wife. It was a sweet surprise. We spend the rest of the day together and had so much fun.
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@arunima25 (92538)
• Bangalore, India
9 Feb 21
Any particular reason for that strong hatred? I don't want a loud birthday party but yes I like being wished by friends and family and feeling that they do care about me. And as for celebration goes, I am for a quiet family time. The lesser people are there, the better.
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@RitzzView (3041)
• India
10 Feb 21
@arunima25 Tried 3 counselors up until now
(Over the years) Didn't work.
Trying for online therapy..or hypnotherapy
I'm not even hoping anymore
But thanks for your question, i feel like someone do care
(Over the years) Didn't work.
Trying for online therapy..or hypnotherapy
I'm not even hoping anymore
But thanks for your question, i feel like someone do care1 person likes this
@RitzzView (3041)
• India
10 Feb 21
Yeah, less people, but close ones makes the day special
My reason, I just have so much of mood swings..God knows, I just hate having a bad day and giving party or celebrating and faking smile for other bunch.
My reason, I just have so much of mood swings..God knows, I just hate having a bad day and giving party or celebrating and faking smile for other bunch.1 person likes this
@arunima25 (92538)
• Bangalore, India
10 Feb 21
@RitzzView I read your comment below. Depression is tough to deal with. Are you taking any professional help?
@RitzzView (3041)
• India
13 Feb 21
Oh..Seems ;like you're really close to your family
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@RitzzView (3041)
• India
9 Feb 21
I don't know...I get mood swings during my birthday.
Maybe it started from the time i was clinically depressed...But not sure.
I just remember faking smiles for some bunch of people, and so i don't like it.
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@itsmesheima (152)
• Hong Kong
9 Feb 21
I think "someone hates their birthday" that the older they are, the less time they have to live in this world. or maybe something bad happened on her previous birthday
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@Babale (1869)
• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Feb 21
Of course I am happy with my birthday. It's just that since childhood I used to not celebrate it. I often forget when my birthday has arrived and only realized after a few days or saw the notification in the email. Still it is a very important day for us.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
9 Feb 21
i prefer the days before my Birthday so know a bit how that feels.
Also like the days after not too keen on the actual day depends on how I feel.
Whatsapp I would deffo put it on hold for that day yes.
@kaylachan (80223)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb 21
Eh, it's just another day. I get the time with my husband, which is the highlight of my day. But, my dad passed a week-and-a-half before I turned 19, so it's always a hard time of year.
