Marriage problems

China
March 2, 2021 3:03am CST
My friend's wife is a stable and progressive person. She is rather dull and doesn't act like a coquette. But in the eyes of outsiders, she is a really good woman. My friend thought so at the beginning. In addition, my friend's family all said that such a woman doesn't have so many flowery intestines and is suitable for living. She doesn't know how to hurt people before marriage and naturally knows after marriage. But after getting married, my friend found out that his wife never took the initiative to care about him and was especially perfunctory to my friend. Until one time, my friend couldn't stand it and asked her wife why she never knew how to treat him better. But his wife felt that he was hypocritical and said that he had already married. Why did she make such empty? I don't know if this situation exists in other countries besides China? How to deal with this situation?
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@mnglsp (3360)
• Philippines
2 Mar
This situation happened to someone I know but the guy hurt her not the woman. This is the reason why it is a must to that if you want to get married you must know everything about that person who'll you going to marry. I am just 21 years old but I usually hear this from my mom because she doesn't want me to get hurt. I know that your friend loves her so much, I hope she'll appreciate it before it's too late.
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• China
3 Mar
It's hard to comment on this kind of thing. Men and women have different ideas
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@mnglsp (3360)
• Philippines
3 Mar
@moshishibie Yes. And, of course, it also depends on the person. We have different perspectives when it comes to being in a relationship. Just like what they always say, we can always give advice, support, and comment yet it is their decision to make.
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• China
4 Mar
@mnglsp Only the parties know how it feels
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@erictsuma (6548)
• Mombasa, Kenya
2 Mar
That kind of situation is everywhere even in Kenya. For example you'll find a lady who treats you well when you are still dating but after marriage the problems start.
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• China
2 Mar
Is it monogamy in your country
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@erictsuma (6548)
• Mombasa, Kenya
2 Mar
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• China
3 Mar
@erictsuma Is there any polygamy in the world?