The Second Blow of Sadness
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
March 10, 2021 7:42am CST
I do not know why I am having sadness lately. My mom and her younger sister fought last night. The root cause is the possibility of moving out from our current place to one of my aunt's apartments. To cut it short, her promises were meant to be broken. Aside from this issue, she had said so many bad things to us. In the ending, my mom felt there is no use in being connected with her.
How do you handle people who are ungrateful to your kindness?
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
10 Mar 21
So why do you and your mother need to move out of your home?
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
10 Mar 21
@Shavkat Her kind deed would have helped you, but your aunt changed her mind.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
11 Mar 21
@kobesbuddy I must admit it can help us in some way.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
10 Mar 21
kindness is a flower we plant and tend. it sadly can be watered by tears. We do our best to help everyone and when they don't welcome that, or reject it, we move on.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
11 Mar 21
@DocAndersen I do think that people changed through the years of existence. I agree that some people are there during the fun times only.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
10 Mar 21
@Shavkat some are, some are not. it is if they are helpful when times easy that sometimes is the telling factor...
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@allen0187 (59708)
• Philippines
10 Mar 21
Cut them off completely.
Of course, it is easier said than done. Hope this is sorted out.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
11 Mar 21
@Shavkat The first sin of jealousy was committed by two brothers Cain and Abel.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
10 Mar 21
I am sorry to hear this another break in the family.
I also have some issues like that here.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
10 Mar 21
i try to think of them nicely, maybe that was her response while she was angry. give it some time and talk again when they're both calm. it will be fine, keep being kind and take care.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
12 Mar 21
@aureategloom Well, her explanations are not acceptable for us. Don't be worried. We just need to move on.
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
11 Mar 21
@Shavkat well, maybe it's a NO, but she has a good explanation for it. you should listen to what she has to say.
@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
11 Mar 21
Well, there are really bouts of depression that happen to us now and then especially with what you just experience with your aunt on having her promise broken again. But please observe that sadness you feel, if that stays longer than 14 days you might be already entering into medical depression. But if it naturally goes on before that time it is a normal reaction of you to your experiences around.
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@Bubba90 (1753)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 21
I'm sorry to hear it, There are so many people like that, I choose not to respond to that person because if I respond to someone like that, I will continue to feel sad and it might affect my health.
I really understand your feelings, it must be very sad to see it
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