Perfect Time

Cebu, Philippines
March 25, 2021 3:19am CST
All of us somehow believe in fairytale, we made it real and live what we want it to be. I was 3years separated with my Ex-husband, we've been married for almost 9years but then no relationship is perfect. I tried to fight and find ways to fix our marriage but it's just so hard to fight ALONE. Then it came to a day he told me to go find my happiness but not with him anymore as he is already happy with someone else's arms (most painful word I heard), I left everything in Manila where I followed him. I left all the pain from small to biggest that he caused me and find ways to move on with my life and still live. Few months passed someone took an effort to show how greatful he is having me around, things he did that my Ex-husband haven't done for me. He is more than willing to accept each and every flaws of my life, he even let me met his family even if we were just friends. The feeling of being the reason why a person has something to still choose happiness with life and that's you. The feeling of being chosen among all the single ladies out there and the feeling of being accepted whole heartedly. So, I gave it a try without setting any expection for a perfect relationship but God is really good. He made it as perfect as I could ever imagine. He gave us the biggest blessing we ever received, I found out being pregnant on his Birthmonth. I couldn't contain the happiness showering the entire me when the moment I knew I am now having a baby which we were not lucky enough with my Ex-husband. I made a surprise on his birthday to announce my pregnancy. All the joy, tears and warm greetings field upon us that I couldn't thank them enough. Right now our Little one is already 9months old and he looks like a little version of his father. We are more than happy and contented with simple and peaceful life. I can say, don't create your perfect time.. Let God work it for you.
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@Janet357 (75651)
25 Mar 21
am sorry:( It hurts when I see married couples part ways because it is always the kids that suffer most.
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• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
yes, but blessing in disguise that we are not blessed with kids.,
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@simplfred (20640)
• Philippines
25 Mar 21
Welcome to Mylot... Thanks for sharing your story...
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• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
Thank you for the warm welcome. I will surely enjoy my stay here.. Be safe!
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@simplfred (20640)
• Philippines
25 Mar 21
@nyvenrsarj Yeah... This place is cool... Are you by chance a Filipina?
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@simplfred (20640)
• Philippines
25 Mar 21
@nyvenrsarj I am kinda on and off here but there's lots of our kabayan who uses this platform also...
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@rakski (112924)
• Philippines
25 Mar 21
Hello kabayan! Welcome to mylot!
@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
25 Mar 21
Good to know dear. Thanks for sharing and take care
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
25 Mar 21
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• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
My pleasure, stay safe as well
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@sharonelton (25936)
• Lichfield, England
26 Mar 21
That's absolutely wonderful! I'm so happy for you.
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@sharonelton (25936)
• Lichfield, England
26 Mar 21
@nyvenrsarj Thank you very much. You too.
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• Cebu, Philippines
26 Mar 21
Thank you Sharon.. I hope you're doing well.. stay safe.
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@Shxrubia (2752)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 21
Glad you're finally happy with your little boy. Forget the past and live the life that is now. May you always be happy. Take care!
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