Dealing with people who habitually makes you feel bad
By setsuna26
@setsuna26 (2751)
Philippines
March 25, 2021 12:49pm CST
One of the things that always makes me feel sad is when someone tries to do something that will surely make my day feel bad. I try my best to be good to everyone all the time but there are times that people can be really rude without a particular reason at all. I just wish you guys can give me an idea bout how to handle or even deal with this kind of situation in our lives.
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4 responses
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
25 Mar 21
Pity that you don't give any examples of these peoples' rudeness. Do you *have* to have contact with such people? If this is not the case, move away from them, try not to be anywhere near them. Look for people who are on your wave length. Try to form a circle of friends you can rely on.
If you can't avoid them, learn some phrases by heart and deliver them with a smiling face like, "If you say so." or "Thank you. How charming of you". Things like that.
If you emit that the rudeness doesn't really touch you, it may dry up.
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
26 Mar 21
If i happen to give examples of these type of people we might end up talking bout it for days my friend. Maybe i should give you a classic one though, the ones who tend to spread lies bout you and spreads unwanted gossip around the neighborhood too
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
26 Mar 21
As much as possible i try to keep them off of my system too but every now and then these type of people tend to penetrate my defenses and makes me feel somehow off. Well i think that is indeed life, we just cant have it all right?
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@DianneN (247105)
• United States
26 Mar 21
@setsuna26 It is much easier if you don’t have to play the game and be a team player at work or school.
@popciclecold (35364)
• United States
25 Mar 21
No one needs people in their lives who bring you down. People that I have found to be like this are no longer in my life Life is hard enough.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
26 Mar 21
Is it indeed hard when you happen to have these kinds of people around you. To make things even worse is the fact that these people might just be inside your own family too, families should be the ones who should keep you up and motivate you but if they are like this then they might just end up making you feel all depressed instead
