Encouraging and discouraging.
By Reine25
@Lucky15 (37346)
Philippines
April 24, 2021 5:08pm CST
I am the desk officer for women and children protection in our community, it is a big responsibility and I have learned a lot.
Well, every "case" i have learned a lot. Not just from them but with myself too.
Encouraging.
When a woman come to me and wanted to discuss her case against her husband or partner, I let her speak her problem and I listen and after that, I will ask her, "do you want to file a case?" I just hate it when a fellow woman being beaten by their husband or partner or their children.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
I always encourage them to file a case against their husband or partner, with all the proof she had, medical certificate and photos of the black and blues. But...
After our first community hearing, or even filing a police blotter, no more follow up is happening, why? They will say to me that her husband or partner promised not to do it again.
It is discouraging but there's nothing I can do, because at the end of the day, she will get to decide what she thinks is the best foe her and her family.
And it is discouraging too on my part as a single. I know not all men are the same and men have already find me intimidating.
Oh well...
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11 responses
@Prabhatsingh (3537)
• India
24 Apr 21
Let me first thank you for what you are doing in terms of children and women protection community.
Also, no promises or being sorry justifies the violence which they have to endure everyday.
And what's stopping the husband or partner from not doing it again ?
But again Thank You for the service you provide to the society.
"Small ripples make big waves"
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@Prabhatsingh (3537)
• India
25 Apr 21
@Lucky15 It happens. Falling back to old habits is much more easier than trying something new.
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@crossbones27 (48417)
• Mojave, California
25 Apr 21
There is truth to what you wrote with men find you intimidating. Believe it or not my step father was like that. Its all about power and if a women got to much power he felt threatened. Would smack around my mom more.
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
25 Apr 21
It is hard when you see the same patterns repeated over and over
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@kaylachan (57636)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Apr 21
That's a job I would not want. But, you're right, there's little you can do.
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