Relationships..who are the people you need to have a better one with?
By sublime03
@sublime03 (2339)
Philippines
May 1, 2021 11:26pm CST
I have never been good at expressing how I feel to the ones I love like family because I feel embarrased and shy. I was never one to say how I feel out loud even when I want to come across how much I love them it always comes out differently. So I always feel bad that they always see the opposite of how I feel.
Do you have someone close that you have a hard time saying or just even showing them how you feel? Have you tried several things to changing how things are between them?
I feel like I need more courage to do what I feel so they feel how much I love them especially at this time where we hardly get to see them regularly.
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6 responses
@mildredtabitha (16032)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 May 21
You feel that way because maybe you are afraid of being disappointed or being criticized. You should overcome fear
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
2 May 21
I really hope one day I do have the courage to overcome that fear. I will definitely try to do small things that will leave me to one day overcoming it.
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@mildredtabitha (16032)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 May 21
@sublime03 Jesus can deliver you from fear
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
2 May 21
I just show my love and appreciation to the people who are always by my side.
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
2 May 21
Wish I could do the same freely. I do with my husband and kids but with parents and siblings I get so shy I tend to not doing anything even if I want to so badly.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
7 Jun 21
Start small.
maybe with a small talk.
Sometimes when you are not reaching out for a long time, you are more shy now to show them how you feel.
When you are friends on social media, maybe start by liking their posts constantly, start commenting on them. Then maybe soon you can message them personally on how they are doing with life. Things like that are difficult when you are not expressive person but try to reach out to them and show them how you feel or care about them before it's too late.
Stay safe..
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
9 May 21
What a sweet way to show them. I wish I could do that now but its kinda late for it especially with this pandemic.
@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
2 May 21
No I express myself freely with one's I love. You can do it dear, just do from your heart without thinking much. Have a good day. Take care
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
2 May 21
I hope so. I think I overthink things when it comes to this matter. I will eventually find a way. Thank you for the encouraging words.
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@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
2 May 21
We should find a way to overcome this. But I know it is very difficult to do so. Maybe we can try little by little and eventually be comfortable enough sooner or later.
