A Probable Reason I'm Not Married
@mythociate (21437)
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
May 17, 2021 6:32am CST
In short, I'm "done." And women don't want to aren't out looking for a home-body who's "done." They're looking for a man who goes out of the house.
They want to meet a man with whom they can "grow old together." & "settle down" (in that order ... important, because part of 'growing old' is "sowing your wild oats" (or maintaining your relationship while your dating-partner sows theirs) before you 'settle down').
It's interesting that--when this came to my mind--I also noticed a myLot-discussion about "what a myth love is" and an "Origin of Everything"-video about 'how marriage started to involve "Love."' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dzYLbtsZpAk&list=WL
Am I right about that? If not, how can I find a wife without becoming a NON-homebody?
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@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
17 May 21
I laugh because people thing finding someone is about actually going out. 21 center you can date online. It’s not hard.
My husband is homebody or likes to stay in bed all day just part of his personal. Me I can do it that all day every day I get bored. I’m not a people person but I just need air. Also finding someone doesn’t have to be growing old, or going out or doing things or what ever the heck sowing oats are. I know what it means never done it not a wild person not even a party person. Give me a movie and pizza and cal it a night.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 May 21
How do homebodies find each other?
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 May 21
@ShyBear88 I know plenty of girls I knew back in high-school (maybe just one or two are still single now), but none of them are 'homebodies' (and you & your spouse probably weren't-yet back then).
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@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
17 May 21
@mythociate he was he was a gamer, I was a mixture I was playing sports a lot but I’m shy and like to keep to myself. When I didn’t have to do something I was at home watching my anime’s and day dreaming.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 May 21
Did you find him when he was being a homebody?
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
18 May 21
@rakski That's something-like 'the reason I went out to get a job.' But--back then--my brain wasn't ready, and it proceeded to see my place-of-employment (the lobby of a movie-theater) as if it were 'another dive-bar's Karaoke-night' (the only other reason I ever went out ... other than school, which I had dropped-out-of years before).
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
17 May 21
@mythociate he was out for work. hehe
but after work, he go straight home
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@florelway (23159)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 May 21
At least you know the probable reason why you are not married. Me? I do no know the reason why I didn't marry.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 May 21
Is that something you want to guess at, or are you satisfied with living alone?
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@florelway (23159)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 May 21
@mythociate people have a lot of.speculatione.but me myself does not know the reason. I am 59 never.been.married.but I don't live alone because I live with my brother and his wife in our ancestral home and lots of.my friends and relatives drop by from time to time. I have a family I can call. I have my family at my workplace supervising many people. Not having someone in my room aside from me does not really.bother me.
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