age gap love, when the female is older

@lilmissy (481)
United States
November 30, 2006 2:14pm CST
why is it ok when a man is say 5-15 years older than a girl but when the woman is 5-15 years older no one will accept it ,they stare or make fun or wont condone it , i mean it only means they hve less of a chance at haveing a child but that happens with even healthy young wives so why is it so unacceptable? and is anyone here involved in a age gap relationship where the female is older?
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@unaware (129)
• India
6 Dec 06
m into it!
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@vincent72 (1634)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
it doesnt bother me , but if ihad the choice it would have to be a woamn thats a lil bit younger but simialr ages cos im 30 .
@lilmissy (481)
• United States
14 Dec 06
well my mother is 35 and her boyfriend is 21 and they get along great and i think he is wonderful too her and we are friends but she sometimes cries at night because she is is 35 and has wrinkles and colors her hair cause its grey and she says when she is 50 he will be 35 and wont stay with her adnd she doesnt want to die old and alone with heartbreak from a young husband . she worries too much otherwise they are great
@sisco100 (2344)
• United States
5 Apr 08
cuz of socity has made it tht way. cuz its mean to be the men always want something young and beautiful. and women all ways want older men, cuz there more mitture then younger ones. its really dumb, its shouldnt matter as long as there both of leagal age.