Who will I choose?

@Jona11 (96)
June 20, 2021 8:19am CST
There are two people in my life who are both important, the one I love and the one who loves me. Now I am confused which of them I will choose. If I choose the person I love, will he learn to love me? Or if I choose the person who loves me, will I be able to learn to love him?
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@Kouponkaren (5482)
• United States
20 Jun 21
Hm, I don't think either is the correct choice. Either way, it is a gamble for you. If you choose the one you love, he may never love you back and that would be a sad life of unrequited love. If you choose the one that loves you, you may never learn to love him, and you might always feel bad that you can't return his love, plus HE will feel bad if you can't return his love. Do you have to choose now? Can you give it time and see what feelings develop, either on the part of the person you love, or on your part for the one that loves you?
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
20 Jun 21
Wise words!
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• Prairieville, Louisiana
22 Jun 21
Welcome to mylot.
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@Jona11 (96)
22 Jun 21
@workathomefan Thank you
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@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 21
Choose who love u. As long as i know love. Better to loved than loving.
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@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
22 Jun 21
Choose whoever the person that comes into your mind first. But I would rather choose someone who loves and appreciates me.
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@Jona11 (96)
22 Jun 21
Yeah. Thanks
@meowch (2220)
• United States
20 Jun 21
That sounds tough. I suggest take your time deciding. Picture yourself how life will be like years from now if you end up with the one you love and the one that loves you. What matters is as long as your happy and you are compatible with the other person.
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@Jona11 (96)
21 Jun 21
thank you for this.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
21 Jun 21
@Jona11 anytime
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@Jona11 (96)
21 Jun 21
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
21 Jun 21
You should choose someone dear who loves you and you love him back. In either case you mentioned, you won't get happiness that's my thinking
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
21 Jun 21
@Jona11 your welcome
@Jona11 (96)
21 Jun 21
Yea. Thanks for this response.
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• United States
20 Jun 21
It's a tough question because love learns, changes and grows. If you are so undecided I am guess you need to stop thinking with your head and start listening with you heart. I find that works best in tough spots.
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@Jona11 (96)
21 Jun 21
Thank you for this opinion. You're right, I should listen to my heart and still thinks all the possibilities.
@LeaPea2417 (36392)
• Toccoa, Georgia
20 Jun 21
That is hard to answer.
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@ladyhero (3846)
• Indonesia
21 Jun 21
if both are good, you can choose the one you love
• Indonesia
20 Jun 21
Choose the person who loves you. We will be tired if we love someone but not necessarily love us
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@Jona11 (96)
21 Jun 21
That's what I'm thinking though ??
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