I don't believe in blaming others or myself in life!!!
@Rashnag (30597)
Surat, India
July 20, 2021 1:45am CST
Hi guys,
Hope you all are doing good. I am doing good too. I really don't believe in blame game. I feel it's a waste of time of ourselves and of others.
Many times there is no point in blaming others or yourself once something has already happened. It just spoils your mood, energy and those of others. I try not to do blaming in life as much as I can. I feel one can live a happy life by not indulging in it.
Share your thoughts about it. Have a good day. Take care!!
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@Butterfingers (66603)
• India
20 Jul 21
Yes but these days you need to have ways to blame others when something goes wrong at office 
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 21
If someone has committed a mistake, you cannot take his blame on your head or would you?
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
23 Jul 21
@Rashnag Then the quote which you mentioned, does not stand correct.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
23 Jul 21
@dpk262006 I will just forget. You can't do much once something is already done or spoilt be it mistake. I don't believe in giving punishment n all
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
20 Jul 21
This kind of situation is quite tricky...
I doubt if we follow this... there will be many such situations in life where we may blame ourselves and others too..
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
20 Jul 21
Ok dear. I know. One shouldn't do it all the time that's what I meant
@Vikingswest1 (7443)
• United States
20 Jul 21
But unless you determine and assign blame, how will you move forward?
If a building collapses, the cause is extremely important.
Was it the designer? Was it the engineers? Was it the crew or faulty products or workmanship?
Blame must be assigned in order to not repeat the mistake.
If a friend borrows your car and crashes it, will you let the friend borrow another car before you determine what happened and who was responsible for the first crash?
I try not to blame but it's necessary in many cases.
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@Belexhanns (3431)
• Kampala, Uganda
20 Jul 21
You don't need to blame anybody, except to blame yourself for any circumstance, that's all
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
20 Jul 21
@Rockstarking I try to let it go if it's not at major scale
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@TerribleMan (579)
• India
11 Aug 21
It is best we do not blame others or ourselves. However, it is important to be aware of the facts and mend the mistakes. This may appear like blame, but it is not. It is only correction and we can do it in a loving manner. There is no need to be harsh about it, wehther it is on ourselves or on others.
Earlier, I used to misbehave with women and I have been slapped on the face by many women. Later, I had to take pains to correct myself and my thinking.
It is easy to blame others around us and the society at large, but it is difficult to work on ourselves.
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