It isn't about us.... / myLot

New Delhi, India

August 1, 2021 11:55pm CST

Well, I think we actually can't control how other people around us receives our energy, or may be in what sense we are talking about. Anything that we say, do eventually filters through the lens of whatever personal understanding/ chaos they are having or going through at the moment....Right...???

It isn't much about us... It's kind of better to keep doing the things we are currently involved in with all the love, compassion and empathy...

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Rashna Gandhi

@Rashnag (30594)

• Surat, India

2 Aug 21

Rightly said. We should also introspect if we feel we are at fault. Have a good day

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11251)

• New Delhi, India

2 Aug 21

Well, true that is...

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vikingswest

@Vikingswest1 (6305)

• United States

2 Aug 21

But your energy dictates how others receive it. Yes, they filter through their thought process but you DO have control of your energy. Your tone and body language affect your energy. Others will read this from you too, not only the words you choose but how you made them feel in the interaction. It IS about us. I disagree with you.

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11251)

• New Delhi, India

2 Aug 21

Yes, may be you are partially right. When it comes to energy and body language, it does make a difference.... But how about if your are connecting with someone virtually, I mean tone can give a bit of idea but not fully!!!

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vikingswest

@Vikingswest1 (6305)

• United States

2 Aug 21

@Aansh13 Connecting virtually is flawed and people have misunderstandings all day, every day. Mood and tone are present in written conversation too. You can control that to an extent but online chats are much more informal and direct because people don't like to give long or detailed replies that can be done by speaking face to face. That leaves room for misinterpretation of things you write. It's ok though. Most often, one of those life erasers comes in handy. I'm sorry. What can I do to make this right?

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11251)

• New Delhi, India

2 Aug 21

@Vikingswest1 Absolutely!!!

eileenleyva

@eileenleyva (27562)

• Philippines

2 Aug 21

We emanate who we are by the way we express ourselves in speech or in action. People perceive us according to respective perspective in life. That means a bit differently from one recipient to another. Surely there would be more understanding to people who are more comfortable in life. For the unfortunate ones, we couldn't expect much. Perhaps we could also go the extra mile and lend a helping hand to those we deem in need. In Christian philosophy, prayers and meditation hold no ground if we don't do something for a neighbor who needs help.

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11251)

• New Delhi, India

2 Aug 21

Wow!!! Such a beautiful comment, thanks for sharing and reminding this wisdom...

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Erly Maglangit

@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

2 Aug 21

So true, everything is not abut us, it may be for others, for God, for fellowmen and last the self. Better to be selfless , but reality exists that there are selfish people and they were about them not us, selfless.

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11251)

• New Delhi, India

2 Aug 21

Well, absolutely true...