Is it Okay not to be Okay?
@angelitovillegas (1215)
Angeles City, Philippines
August 27, 2021 6:04pm CST
Do you think it's okay not to be okay when you genuinely feel pain, anger, frustration, or other negative feelings. Acknowledging and accepting them eventually leads to your healing and a truer sense of happiness and meaning to life itself. Is it true, It's not okay to be not okay when you know you can't do anything about it, or can't help yourself and others to improve the situation. Wallowing yourself in pessimistic or defeatist emotions is not okay when you have the option to have and to share faith, hope, and love.
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@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
27 Aug 21
Yes, we have to release those pain so that we have room for the happy one. Let's not own the experience because it will create disease in our body.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Yes that is true. It will create stress and we all know stress is also a factor that will make out body or immune system weak.
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@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
28 Aug 21
@angelitovillegas Definitely, stress can kill us all. LOL
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
@asianlady yes. I tend to surround myself now with people who wont give me stress.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
@CarolDM sometimes i feel failure will be the end of everything. But now i've learned its the beginning of a better version of me.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Yes i do believe that also.
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@kaylachan (57866)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Aug 21
You need to take pride in your emotions, positive or negative. They need to be allowed to pass, that's the only way you can move forward. If you want to wollow for a while, that's what your body needs. Listen to it.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Accepting failures most of the times is so hard. But we have to learn it and everything will fall into place. Failures makes us a better person whom we always want to be.
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
28 Aug 21
@angelitovillegas yes, so we are allowed to not be okay as long as we learn from those experiences and move forward
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
@rakski i believed that. What matters is lesson learned
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Yes that was so true. Were only human. We have our imperfections and flaws.
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@just4him (306523)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Aug 21
It's okay to not be okay when you are in emotional hurt. It's not okay to be okay with wallowing in pessimism and negativism. Those emotions only bring you down and cause pain on another level you don't want to deal with. We all go through stuff that brings pain and grief. It's part of life. We need to look at the positive aspects of the hurt and grief and learn from it.
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@just4him (306523)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Aug 21
@angelitovillegas It will make you stronger.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
29 Aug 21
@just4him yes it refreshes our soul and revitalize our lives as we face every day hardships.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Thank you for this explanation. I really look forward accepting the facts that we cannot control what will happen around us and also our feelings towards those situations.
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@onbigsmile (58)
• United States
28 Aug 21
You know sometimes people feel bad, and they cannot do anything about it, right? For example, if you have depression, it is hard to just turn off the bad thoughts like a switch.
Also, if you have chronic health conditions that cause massive pain ALL THE TIME, IT IS FAIRLY DIFFICULT TO JUST PUT ON A HAPPY FACE.
I AM ALL FOR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING (in theory), but I think other circumstances need to be considered.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
It's really hard to be happy when you are in pain deep inside. It's so hard to hope when everything around you are falling apart. But accept it, we just have to learn to accept failures and pain are part of our life. Making us more stronger and keeping us get going.
@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Many questions have been answered. Many feelings have been explained.
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@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
28 Aug 21
It is sometimes difficult but we must always try I agree.
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@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
29 Aug 21
@angelitovillegas Yes that is the main issue we cannot give up..but it is okay not to be okay
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
29 Aug 21
@RebeccasFarm yes my friend! Just a consolation for it was the lesson learned.
@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Yes, we have to try sometimes to be okay even if all were messed up. We just have to cling on our faith that everything will fall into place and the storms in our lives will passed through.
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@angelitovillegas (1215)
• Angeles City, Philippines
28 Aug 21
Oh thank you! I hope also that everything in your life, whether good or bad situations, you find reasons to be okay.
