Betrayals and fake friendship

Philippines
September 8, 2021 6:41pm CST
I have been reading stories about friendship that has gone to waste because of unloyalty and betrayals. Its when someone thought they already found the best ally but in reality when you are not around they are talking about you. It hurts to know that the person whom you trust is not what he or she really is. It happens to all of us , so lets be careful who we confide our problems and worries with. Having found real friends is like finding another family. Remember that a close friend can be your worst enemy. So be careful at all times. Photo from google.
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (58177)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Sep 21
That's just life. You need to trust and believe in yourself, before you can trust others. People do need people. This is true, but you also need balance.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
9 Sep 21
@kaylachan Absolutely . The saying No Man Is An Island is also correct. We need people in our lives. We interact everyday. But we have to be careful and mindful at the same time.
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andreea
@andreea_v (241)
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15 Sep 21
@iKONICNoona yes, we need to be careful Better stay with our eyes peeled than to be sorry later
OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86833)
• United States
9 Sep 21
Oh yes you are so right about that Patricia
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86833)
• United States
9 Sep 21
@iKONICNoona Oh no worries my friend you are so special lady xo
OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86833)
• United States
9 Sep 21
@iloves88 So true Jason Holloway
Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
9 Sep 21
@RebeccasFarm Oh thank you very much , its been a while since someone mentioned my name and I'm touched , thank you so much.
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
9 Sep 21
we have to treasure good and real friends
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
9 Sep 21
@rakski That's whete we learn and grow afterwards.
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
9 Sep 21
Noor Fatima
@Noor0000001 (378)
• Pakistan
9 Sep 21
Nice advice.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
9 Sep 21
We need balance in life . It will be boring if there is no one to talk to.
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Noor Fatima
@Noor0000001 (378)
• Pakistan
9 Sep 21
Firsa
@SYFirsa (13)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 21
Yes, real friend is like a rare gem lately.Too many fake friends around
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
13 Sep 21
@SYFirsa Hello there ! Welcome to mylot and thank you very much in participating in my discussion. You are indeed correct , friends are like gems .
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Firsa
@SYFirsa (13)
• Indonesia
14 Sep 21
@iKONICNoona thank you for the warm welcoming
suanne
@suanne (6)
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23 Sep 21
indeed. it just so hard to find the real one who we can trust wholeheartedly. but also remember, there is no one is perfect in every way. sometimes they can make mistakes that might hurt us without they intended to.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
23 Sep 21
@suanne Hi there ! Welcome to myLot and thank you very much in participating on my discussion. Hope to read more discussion from you too. And yes I agree that no one is perfect but we can make ways not to betray or hurt other people.
adek
@adeprafir (75)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 21
This is so true Remembering the good memories just hurt more
Ignasius Budyanto
@zeongi (158)
• Ujung Pandang, Indonesia
9 Sep 21
I just happened to feel that recently. It's really hurt that people we trust treat us like that. Even though I've tried to be the best friend for him. But all that means nothing. Yes, what happened made me realize that we must always be careful to judge people because it is very dangerous for ourselves.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
13 Sep 21
@zeongi Hello and welcome to mylot. Hope you like it here. Thank you for participating in my discussion.
Netanel
@Netanel2 (21)
• Israel
9 Sep 21
very true. I was in a good relationship with a girl for a whole year, and we were so close but in the end I found out that all this time she was in a relationship with another person and she did not tell me anything about it and I found out it broke me
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
13 Sep 21
@Netanel2 Hello and welcome to myLot , thank you very much for participating in my discussion .Hope you will like it here. And regarding your reply on my discussion , loyalty and honesty is a big part of any relationship. Its hard to trust a person who is not loyal to you .
Taufiqal Zidan
@Chacheer (19)
• Indonesia
10 Sep 21
In fact, true friends are ourselves, if we can be friends with ourselves, everything will be fine.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
13 Sep 21
@ Chacheer Hello and welcome to myLot ! Hope to see more discussion from you and thank you very much in participating with my discusdion. And I must say sometimes being our own best friend is good because we will only think about ourselves, no drama and hassles.
PUTRI .
@Mytriii (52)
• Ujung Pandang, Indonesia
16 Sep 21
i often exchange stories with him then when I leave the conversation area, then next I will be the topic of conversation, but I try not to care about their conversation :(
suanne
@suanne (6)
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23 Sep 21
hope you are going to find the better one who is worth hearing your stories!
martinus tanubrata
@martinus123 (105)
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18 Sep 21
yup... the same as toxic friend
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4004)
• Philippines
18 Sep 21
@martinus123 Hello there ! Welcome to myLot and I hope you will lime it here. With your statement about toxic friend, we ahould learn to let them go specially if they are disturbing your peace.
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