How to Survive in Selfish Love
By Bie Separow
November 24, 2021 7:32am CST
Sometimes we just judge or think someone is selfish. but have you ever loved someone, from whose own mouth came the words "yes, I am selfish, so what do you want?" I met this woman 15 months ago, maybe a mistake, or whatever it's called, but I love her so fast In the beginning everything was fine, she seemed so loving and like an understanding woman. A perfect figure that makes me think, if I'm not mistaken I've fallen in love with her. But in the last few months, things have changed rapidly. As if showing her real self, until I sometimes get overwhelmed with it. I had asked her several times to reduce his selfishness, but in the end she just said, yes I am selfish, so what do you want? if you can't accept me, please leave, because there will definitely be someone who accepts me as I am without complaining it's true that love is blind, and I ended up trapped in feelings that had loved her so deeply, but this relationship was also impossible to continue what would you do if you were in my position?
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no, we haven't decided to live together. day by day, the higher her selfishness, for example, if she did something wrong..I have to forgive her without her having to apologize..Meanwhile, when I do something wrong even if it's unintentional, I have to make amends with lots of apologies and actions that please her.. that's right have to know more, unfortunately at the beginning of our togetherness, she looks like an angel who deserves to be loved..and when I sincerely opened my heart, she just showed her real face
@askme123 I hope so too, right now I'm struggling through tough times after letting her go, my heart hurts so much..and hope it will heal soon..even she still says how a bast**d I am just like any other guy who dumped her..as if all my patience so far is not enough to open her eyes.. thank you for the kind prayers and the spirit Best wishes for you too
I'm so sorry to hear that, must be aweful !! But if I were you I would just leave. I wouldn't think twice about it. Life is short, I'm living for me, I love myself more than any other one. It might seem hard to leave, but I'm sure it's not the first goodbye you've ever had, it gets easier.