Our Relationship - Day Seventeen

@Courtlynn (66921)
United States
December 14, 2021 4:39am CST
Do you two fight fairly? Of course not *eyeroll*. He says low blows, and ignores my messages until he feels like writing again -- hours later. Even blocks my messages and calls sometimes. Which is all childish as he should know how to have civil fights, and I've obviously told him that many times. Me, I just do long paragraphs which he hates to read - to explain my side of things and how I feel etc. Which is normal for most the females 18-35ish that I've ever known. And isn't even fighting. *shrugs*
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@askme123 (6150)
14 Dec 21
You put up with aloti i would move on to someone who shows me more respect andl love
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Dec 21
Thats okay that you would. But I don't give up on people easily, and still see the good in him especially after 11.5years.
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@askme123 (6150)
15 Dec 21
@Courtlynn He is your first
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Dec 21
@askme123 first partner? No lol
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
15 Dec 21
Text fighting is the worst.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
16 Dec 21
It can be awful but i don't think it's the worst.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
17 Dec 21
@MissNikki text can get misinterpreted anyways so easy to fight that way for sure
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
16 Dec 21
@Courtlynn well for me, anyway. I can't fight in person because I just cry LoL with text I can be long and drawn out and just make this worse
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• United States
14 Dec 21
I tend to send a short text that gets him to question what it’s all about. It’s usually when I go hours without hearing from him. Or it’s close to bedtime and we haven’t heard from him. It’s hard having him on the road all the time.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Dec 21
I bet it is
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
Is it possible for couples not to fight
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Dec 21
No. Everyone, couple or not will eventually fight or close enough to it
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Dec 21
They say all's fair in love and war. Fighting seemed to be a daily thing in my marriage. I'm so glad I'm no longer married. I don't like fighting.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Dec 21
@Courtlynn It was either that or we didn't talk at all.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
16 Dec 21
So sorry it was daily for you too
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@Edsamacos (557)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
I think it is normal for couples to have misunderstanding and small fight.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
16 Dec 21
Yeah small ones or once in awhile huge ones but not all the time