The people in our life should be a source of reducing stress, not causing more of it!!!

@Rashnag (30597)
Surat, India
December 14, 2021 4:53am CST
Hi guys, Hope you all are doing good. I am doing good too. I believe in this quote as it's so apt and practical in life. We don't choose our family in which we are born and grow up. Other than that we can choose people in our life, thus have to choose them consciously. People around us should make us happy, are caring and supporting towards us. They should be the stress Buster's nor causing more stress in our life. I know it's not ideal because many times we face such people who causes more stress to us. We can do one of two things. Either we stop taking stress by handling things and if we aren't able to solve even after much trying, then should stay away from such people. Life is too short. We should try not to take much stress and enjoy it fully. It can be done when we are in company of people who makes us happy, are caring and supporting towards us. People who make us laugh during tough times too. Personally speaking, I am blessed to be surrounded by such amazing people in my life who are stress Buster's. The ones who cause me more stress, i try to stay away from them. Share your thoughts about it. Have a good day. Take care!!!
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@askme123 (6223)
14 Dec 21
This is true but in the real world you have to learn to tolerate them because sometimes they are at your job or you do business with them.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
14 Dec 21
True indeed. That's a valid point. Then we can try not to take much stress
15 Dec 21
Yes, this is true to a certain degree. But we must also improve ourselves for the betterment of others too.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
15 Dec 21
Rightly said. I agree. Working on our selves goes on throughout in life
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15 Dec 21
@Rashnag Yes, it is a lifelong journey.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
15 Dec 21
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
14 Dec 21
I am closer to some of my friends than to some of my blood relatives. And I have found that I´m not the only one.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
15 Dec 21
Glad to know about it. Yes there are some relationships which are more close than blood relatives
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
True but sometimes we also have to make personal adjustments and be flexible instead of just abruptly cutting them off in our life, identifying what is it that is stressful and trying to eliminate it instead of eliminating the person right away is more challenging for me personally
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
15 Dec 21
True indeed. We all can try but if it finally doesn't work out then should avoid such people as it isn't worth it to take so much stress for anyone
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@averygirl72 (38848)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
I stay away from stressful people. It's not good for our mental health
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
14 Dec 21
Glad to know about your thoughts. Yes we should protect our mental health no matter what
@Babino (5756)
• Morocco
15 Dec 21
I choose my people very carefully. Negativity is certainly not allowed.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
16 Dec 21
Glad to know about it
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