Do you complain about your Life?

@sherinek (3320)
United States
September 13, 2006 10:34pm CST
what do you feel about people who complain a lot?
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29 responses
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
31 Oct 06
Complaining about something doesn't make the problem go away or fix it, so it is best to attempt to resolve the problem or ignore it. People who complain a lot generally have few friends, not much of a life and much of it can be put down to their attitude. As the old saying goes "if you can fix a problem, do so and if you can't fix it, there is no point in worrying as it will not improve the situation". :)
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I agree with you. I generally tell the people complain the same thing. But do you know there are people, how much ever we try to give them hope, they just deny and complain complain complain????
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I agree with you. I generally tell the people complain the same thing. But do you know there are people, how much ever we try to give them hope, they just deny and complain complain complain????
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
3 Nov 06
There is no point in complaining really because people who do this end up with very few friends. Certainly if someone has a bit of a bad time in life, friends are prepared to listen and try to help but if someone continually complains, nobody ends up listening after a while. So sad, but they have to work it out for themselves because that type of person never takes good advice given by well intentioned people. :)
@mikeyxclare (1097)
• United States
25 Nov 06
I do complain about my life but everybody does. We all go through our stages where we hate our life or we love our life or we don't want to live. It's a human instinct to do this. I know from experiences that everybody has to complain about their lives. I'm sure you have. It does get to me sometimes when people constantly complain about their lives. But I have no room to speak for I am one of those people.
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• United States
14 Sep 06
I sometimes complain. But then I think that things could be worse and i really don't have nothing major to complain about.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
14 Sep 06
i used to complain about my life. being to poverty, being hurt..... but later, i realized that i should not complain about anything that has happened in my life and will still happen in days to come. rather, i should be thankful because i was able to went through it all--- learn the value of money and trust and patience... complaining won't help at all. it's better to do something about things you don't like than to complain all the time. people who loves to complain are those who does not try to help in finding solutions. they just complain because it the only thing they are good at.
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• India
14 Sep 06
I will never complain about my life to anyone. I will just lead my life, whatever hurdles will come i will face it. I will not curse others nor GOD. And I will try to make others happy.
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@aindnow (165)
• India
14 Sep 06
Hate them. I would like some complaining but not over
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@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 06
Thats kind of proccess in life.as for human more or less we will complaint b/c human were emotional as part of life. As long as not too much into it there should be nothing important.Normally people start complaining due to their pressure and short after they complain they will feel better.
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• United States
14 Sep 06
When people complain me about their life, I listen to them but let it go from my other ear. I got better things to think about and do in my own life.
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@missyann73 (1454)
• United States
14 Sep 06
if I did, who would listen anyway, so why bother. complaining wont solve anything
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@ErnestK73 (214)
• United States
14 Sep 06
I can't answer why others complain alot, but I can answer for me. I don't complain alot. I take life as it is. I know when something goes wrong, that's the way it's supposed to go. Not much you can do about it when you complain.
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@rosebug23 (1906)
• Australia
11 Nov 06
I cannot stand people who do nothing but complain some people seem to have nothing else to do .what a terrible way to spend ypur life
• Pakistan
25 Nov 06
nah ! i don't
• United States
14 Nov 06
Anyone who doesn't appreciate their lives ...... and enjoy horror flicks should see Saw. I haven't seen Saw III yet, but I and II are entertaining and through all the horror, there is a really good message. I think we all sometimes fall off and don't realize how good we have it. It's only natural as we are just mere mortals, but it's important to get back on track and know that it isn't all that bad. You should never complain over nonsense, especially if you're healthy and have a nice roof over your heads because all of these can be taken away so easily.
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
6 Jan 07
People who constantly whine and complain and never see the positive side in anything are very draining to be around. I admit that I vent and complain about my life more than I would like to, but I would also like to consider myself as a fairly positive, optomistic person. Of course, we all have times where we feel more down, and there is no shame in letting that out now and then. But there are people out there who seem to only find joy in bringing others down by constantly saying how bad and hard everything is, and I don't like to associate with those types of people very much. I'm not sure who does! *laugh*
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
9 Jan 07
I gave you best. Its a very good response. Keep it up. Good luck.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
3 Nov 06
You know what I always say go with the flow!
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
3 Nov 06
i will feel irritated by people who complain a lot... i used to complain a lot about my life and i find it useless... it is better to be grateful for what you have now rather than complaining...
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
11 Nov 06
We all complain sometimes, but we need to be careful not to burden others with too much of our trouble because they have troubles enough of their own. I think it's okay sometimes, though, because we all have times we need to talk to someone about what's troubling us. Other times complaints cause positive results, like when we complain here on mylot and mylot listens and makes improvements.
@rhitzky (362)
• Philippines
3 Nov 06
yes most of the times
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I USE TO,BUT THEN I REALIZE THINGS COULD BE ALOT WORSE THAN WHAT THEY ARE IN MY LIFE. SO I DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT AND GO TO COLLEGE THIS SEMESTER.YES I AM 31. BUT HEY BETTER LATE THAN NEVER. SO I THANK GOD THAT I AM ABLE AND THANK HIM 4 WHAT I DO HAVE
• Singapore
3 Nov 06
There's nothing that could change the fact if we complain/sad...so y do it? i actually dont like it when ppl do that, complaining and moaning about their life, but as a friend, i will probably sit there and be a listener, cos thats probably what complainer is looking for , somebody to be there to listen