Have you ever been considered second choice by people?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
July 30, 2022 1:55am CST
Sometimes when people need us they would call and would spend hours telling about their worries and pain. Sometimes when people need money from us they would call and ask for money. Sometimes when people need our help they will call us for help. But most times these people would not be there for us. They would not answer our phone when we need them or spend time with us when we need them. Have you ever been considered second choice like this by people like friends or people you know? How do you feel in these times and what is your experience about it?
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
30 Jul 22
I used to have a clique when I was 12 years old. When we reached HS my best friend and these clique stopped hanging out with me. One time they saw me carrying a bag of lanzones in town and asked for some. I wish I had not given them LOL.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
2 Aug 22
Some of them keep in touch us only when they need us.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Sep 22
@yoalldudes You are right and it is better to spend time with people who love us.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
2 Aug 22
@ajithlal I ignore them because that is what I feel. Why is adulthood like this?
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@Gguusia (401)
• Poland
31 Jul 22
It did happen sometimes, but then I knew that they weren't honest people and the relationship wasn't that important anymore.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
2 Aug 22
Some people are like that they use us and throw us when they do not need us.
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30 Jul 22
not sure Ive ever been first choice to be honest
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
2 Aug 22
I also has never been the first choice.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
21 Sep 22
Same thing and it hurts sometimes.