Beverly Hills 90210 take 2

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For the past 4 years it has felt like i am living on the set of Beverly Hills 90210 with a new script but a younger cast. It feels like a constant battle dealing with a 17 year old who acts like a 2 year old at times and tries to act like an adult. Then to top matters off I also am now dealing with a 13 year old who thinks they know it all and doesnt have to listen anything anyone says. Wants the priveledge without the responsibilites. Its crazy and each day is another battle . Some days its a question why i woke up and other days its like the best day ever. The 17 year old thinks that everything that goes wrong in her life is everyone elsses fault and she hasnt done anything to cause it . Weather its a teacher at school , their younger sibbling , thier mother or me or some other person who pisses her off. She will constantly tell stories and then when question her about it she will change the story to fit her narative . When she is angry with a teacher she will tell us about it and then when we tell her we are going to contact said teacher in question she will say that the teacher will deny it and that it never happened because that teacher hates her. The 13 year old isnt much better , she will constantly fight us tooth and nail if we tell her to do something and it doesnt fit to her way of thinking. Her mother will ask her to brush her hair and she will lie to her face and say she already brushed it or its fine and its her hair and she can do what she wants. She and her sister have both said time and again they will call the police on us because we are being mean and making them take care of themselves. I am at my wits end with both and am at a loss as to what to do. Any suggestions to deal with these problems are welcome. Please dont suggest we take things from them as we have already done this and they have little else to take from them. Obviously its both illegal and abusive to use physical disapline so again dont even suggest this as an option. The 17 year old is on medication for ADHD but this only really helps with the attention side of her problems not the anger and the blatent disrespect that she constantly shows both her mother and myself. The 13 year old has bassically learned the behavior from the 17 year old and is getting worse day by day. The 17 year old constantly tries to act like her sisters mother , constantly will jump into converations which dont have anything to do with her and her 13 year old sister does thny6jm7ue same thing. It is hard to hold a conversaition with my wife when the girls are around because they will jump in and involve themselves in the conversation, I feel like i am in a prison with sychopaths in a mental hospital where my every move is being watched and i cant talk to one person without another envolving themselves in the conversation. Ill ask the 13 year old a question and the 17 year old will answer for her or have her own version of the situation. I cant plan any suprises because the girls are always listening even when they are in their rooms away from the conversation. I have to text or email my wife if i want to have a private conversation with my wife . Both the 17 year old and the 13 year old question who im talking to on the phone and demand to know why i am calling who im calling or talking to or about. I wish i could call someone or have a conversation with an indervidual without the need of everyone needing to know what i am doing. I have NEVER given my wife or my daughters reason to think for a moment i would cheet on my wife . I love my wife more than life itself and sometimes i have moments where i want to crawl into a corner and close my eyes and drift off to another world. Sorry for the long post but i just needed to vent my frustrations over the events that are in my life right now. Thanks to all who support and give great feedback and I will read it all even if sometimes i dont respond rest asure i do take it all into account . Happy August 8th