What's marriage? Sharing life or desire.

I think it is sharing life together.

Some men , and a few women say variety is the spice of life. If they are talking about food - that 's true, if it is about relationships and marriage , then don't ever get married.

I agree that marriage is something permanent and not to be thrown out when you feel bored already. It is a commitment to stay together and build a family of their own. Desire is what spices things up in the relationship. Although they are not the main ingredient in the relationship it cannot be denied that they should be kept intact to have it in the relationship.

There is certainly no shortage of opinions when it comes to this subject. What is 'right' and what is 'wrong'? How can we know? I personally adhere to the original standard set by the one who created marriage. 'That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife, and they will become one flesh.' Gen 2:24 Much wise advice is found in scripture: “Husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cherishes it.”?—Ephesians 5:28, 29. “The wife should have deep respect for her husband.”?—Ephesians 5:33 Plenty of other arrangements have been tried, and may seem to 'work out', but you can't ignore the manufacturer's instructions indefinitely. Yes, you may get away with not servicing a car or appliance as per instructions in the manual. But for how long?

I have to disagree as someone that is polyamorius we don’t see ther marriage is meant only to be spent with one person. Yes many of us legal marry and have a committed relationship with a primary partner but when you put desires on hold your denying yourself the right to feel. It’s part of human nature to want to be with other people to want to share with not only just seeing them but it can also be physical it doesn’t mean it has to be in the bedroom but it can ne I’d they is what you and the other person want. I my husband we have been together for 12.5 years but we also know in our own nature that we can’t just keep to each other. That’s is why poly life is better for us. We talk about everything together even if we are interested in another person romantically or just friendly.

I don’t agree or disagree, it’s different strokes for different folks. Some marriages succeed and some fail.

I agree that marriage requires some commitment, faith and staying power, not frivolous let us see what is the next thing.