A nagging wife

September 14, 2006 3:20am CST
My is never satisfied with whatever i provide her with.Iam not ready to loose her. Could somebody out there advice me on how to handle this situation.
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38 responses
• United States
15 Sep 06
please elaborate on your situation. you are probably not paying enough attention to her. treat her like you would treat your mother, father, brother, sister, daughter or son. dont treat her like a woman who is inferior. women are not inferior to men. if she's complaining alot there must be something wrong, talk to her about it. maybe she is depressed and needs a psychiatrist. maybe it's you that is the problem. what is she complaining about? if you feel that she is nagging you maybe you made a mistake in marrying her because you decided to marry someone without really getting to know them. the person you marry should be able to fit comtfortably with one another and never should feel like a nuisance. they should feel like a running body to have fun with. a playmate and best friend. they shoudln't be treated as an obstacle.
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@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
14 Sep 06
Only one way to solve this. Try talk to her. If she is compaining for the bills, you can either asy you do your best or try to find more money. If she is complaining about not paying attention to her then start paying attention. It's not difficult. Try to remember the clothes that she wears, the cut of her hair, try not to forget her birthday or your anniversary. Simple things. And by the way once in a time flowers wouldn't harm. Don't over do it because she will think you have a girlfriend. (I hope you don't)
• South Africa
14 Sep 06
What is she nagging you about? Maybe you are not spending enough time with her or she just simply wants out of the relationship...
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@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
14 Sep 06
Some people you just can't satisfy, you have to accept that. Could be she's one of them. I know quite a few but they are party poopers.
@keecou (188)
• Egypt
14 Sep 06
just listen to her.. listen to wht she wanna let u know..listening is the only way to a woman's heart.. trust me,listen and know whts going on with her and why she is not satisfied with whatever u provide her..and sure things will be better.. i hope so :)
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@Hockey35 (42)
• United States
14 Sep 06
I suggest that you confront her and tell her that you are trying your best and that you get mad when she yells at you. In short terms tell her how you feel.
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@asa010 (1128)
• India
14 Sep 06
ur in hell...god save u from ur wife
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• United States
14 Sep 06
introduce her to a woman
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• United States
14 Sep 06
A woman who is never satisfied usually indicates a very deep insecurity and a lack of love for herself. Try complimenting her on how beautiful she looks and how good of a job she does on everything. Teach her to love herself.
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• United States
14 Sep 06
Have you tried telling her how you feel?
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@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
14 Sep 06
What is she complaining about ? and how does she complain ? Did you try to talk to her ? How long do are you married ?
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• United States
14 Sep 06
Hmmm.... well, I would start off by not saying that she is a "nagging wife"... that might help. Also, is she complaining that you aren't paying attention to her, or not paying the bills, or what? That would definitely help us help you :)
@labatt113 (401)
• United States
30 Sep 06
First YOU most figure out why you can't handle it. You should be able to reslve any situation even if your wife is being unjust to you, you must be able to work it out. YOu must learn away to teach her and yourself. No one can tellyouw hat to do in this situation. Sould search, you will find the answers.
@shi_2000_21 (2680)
• India
30 Sep 06
The best solution is talk to her. What she likes, what she dislikes. Do you satisfy her sexually, Try to figure it out what she likes.
@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
28 Sep 06
Does your wife's mother nag her husband? It could be a conditioning she grew up with. Some women are like that. If you are providing her material things and she nags wanting more, then she is spoiled. Just ignore it, do your best. You can tell her she is beautiful, you love her, she is wonderful, yadda yadda yadda, till your blue in your face, but if it isnt real to you and you are just doing that because someones says to, it won't work, the sincerety won't be there. Too many things here that could be a reason and you didn't give any. I don't nag my hubby, maybe I should sometimes lol, but I just let things go. Neither one of us can have things our way totally. That would not be a marriage.
@shajeen (106)
• India
28 Sep 06
it seems u love her..i dont knw why u feel tat way abt her..in wat way is she naggin u??....
@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
27 Sep 06
Get some counseling together.
@DeborahWY (306)
• Singapore
28 Sep 06
Has she always been like that all along? If she is, then there's nothing you can do except to find ways to cope. Take time out frequently to be with friends so as to have a breathers - that may help you cope.
29 Sep 06
What does she nag about? In my experience men can be equally sulky and moody!
@1alyssa (758)
• United States
29 Sep 06
have you ever tried to talk to her to find out exactly what her problem is some people just can not be made happy and if that is the case you have to decide if that is something you can live with or not