Do not offer to do something unless you do it from the bottom of your heart
By Eunike
@veunike (331)
Hong Kong
November 16, 2022 10:36pm CST
Guys, these two days I've been so overwhelmed by someone. He offered me help but then he bring it up and think that I am only using him for something. I was so upset because I think the reason why he did that is because he wants approval or validation from me.
Tbh, I lose interest in him, and I was thinking to give him the money back.
And I think he is also an insecure man. I choose not to speak anything because I don't like this type of a person that always being needy.
Any advice for me anyone?
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
17 Nov 22
Well, you are going through the experience and you would be the right person to take this decision. I don't know the person and so I can't say anything. It would be wrong on my part to suggest something without understanding the situation and persons involved well.
I hope that things are straightened out well 
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
17 Nov 22
@veunike Oh! I see. I can say my personal opinion but you need not agree with it. If I was in your shoes, I would return his money ( as there is earnings from the website) and do a face to face talk with him to clear all the confusion. I would definitely thank him for the help when I needed it. And would return the money without hurting his feelings, saying that it makes me feel better and I don't want money to come between us. Also, I would clarify how it is a bit packed for me to stay in touch with people.
I would not want to end any relationship or connection on a bad note or loose someone due to some confusion not cleared. Well, he might not be behaving well and I have no control on that. But I am in control of my behaviour and I would keep it simple and straight.
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@veunike (331)
• Hong Kong
17 Nov 22
@arunima25 thank you so much for your answer. It helps me a lot. And I would agree with what you said. I don't want money to become an issue too.
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
17 Nov 22
@veunike Thank you. I am glad that you agree with me and I could be helpful.
