How to deal with nit-picking In-laws???

@sutan74 (1112)
Philippines
December 1, 2006 11:02am CST
I always have to deal with my in-laws interventions, i dont want to hurt them but they are crossing our privacy..
2 responses
@EagleEyes (646)
• United States
1 Dec 06
You could just say something like "With all due respect,this is between me and your significant other (your husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.) It is private and we would like to keep it that way. That is polite and to the point.
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
Ha,ha would love to tell that to my in-laws. Just to see the look on their faces..
• United States
1 Dec 06
You should tell them because if you don't they are gonna keep doing it, and sooner or later it is gonna get to you and you are gonna explode lol, seriously it is ok to tell people to mind their own business politely though.
@sedel1027 (17851)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Th easiest thing to do is not talk to them about things that they are not involved in, keep information to yourself. If they do try to give you adivce, just thank them and change the subject.
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
Thanks for the advice. This is a good advice.