What matters most

Nigeria
January 30, 2023 3:55am CST
We humans we easily get distracted by the big things we try to achieve. We tend to set big goals in our business, personal lives, relationships and every aspect of life. When we do not achieve these things we look down on ourselves like we have failed or we are not good enough compared to the next person. We set a time limit as to when we should achieve these goals and we struggle so hard to make sure we achieve them. While we chase after these things, we tend to forget what really matters most. There is notting wrong in having big dreams, but what really makes life meaningful is not the big wins on the end results, its the process. The steps we took to achieve does big wins, the sacrifices we made and most importantly the little wins. We get carried away with trying our best to win big that we fail to appreciate the little wins. Many people easily fall into desperation and depression cause they are only focused on the big wins that they fail to see how far they have gone or how much they have achieved, but they assume they are failures cause they have not gotten what they want yet. Today is Monday, and the first working day of the week, while we begin our hustles i would like us to take a few minutes to sit and think back on the little achievements we have made so far, no matter how small they are, congratulate yourself for that. Do not think about how much you have not gained but think about how far you have gone. The truth of the matter is if you are not grateful for the little things, you will never be content with the big wins. Start your week with a grateful mind, have a lovely monday and wish you the best all through the week.
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
30 Jan 23
I'm glad to say that this is an affliction I've never suffered from.
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• Nigeria
31 Jan 23
Glad to hear that then
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@Dreamerby (3049)
• Calcutta, India
31 Jan 23
Yes this is human nature. But I have always preferred taking small steps
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• Nigeria
3 Feb 23
That's great, there is notting wrong with taking small steps, it is these small steps that actually make up the big ones. Take things slow and steady and enjoy every moment.
@db20747 (43433)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Jan 23
Thank you, appreciating the small accomishments leads to the bigger accomplishments.
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• Nigeria
31 Jan 23
Well said, you would even appreciate it more when the big ones comes.
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