At what age do you think it is appropriate for a child to have a cell phone?

@magikrose (5429)
United States
December 1, 2006 12:39pm CST
Ok my son is 11 and he has a cell phone. I know some of you are thinking "What are they thinking?" The phone he has is made for a child. It has NO numbers on it at all. An adult has to program it for the child. There is a call button and a hangup button. It has an address book and it even has an emergency button just in case. What are your thoughts on children with cell phones? Please give details as to why you feel that way.
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• United States
1 Dec 06
I think you need to question why you son would need a cell phone. Is there really a call that he couldn't make at home? I really don't think that cell phones should be used for anything more than emergency use. Cell phones are really getting out of hand now. They have music, pictures, and even video. A bit too much I think.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Currently my son lives with my mother and step-father and there was a time that we did not have a phone at all so when he would visit us there was no way of my mom to contact me so originally it was so that when he visited us there was a waay for my mother to contact me. The other reason was so that he didnt have to always ask her for her cellphone to call me when they were away from home(which is almost all the time) He has his own phone to call me. The big rule to him having a cell phone is that it could never go to school or it would be taken away for good.
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• United States
1 Dec 06
With that said, I would say it is okay for him to have the phone as long as he respects what it is to be used for.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I think as long as it's a phone they use to only call parents and 911 when needed that's fine. It helps teach responsibilities. But when I see kids with one of those new razor phones and what not I think they aren't old enough for them. I didn't get my first cell until I graduated high school, and then I helped pay the phone bill.
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I totally agree with you. Like I said in my description my son has a childs cell phone that my mother has to program the important numbers in for him. (he lives with my mom) Plus it is not allowed to go to school or he looses it for good. I will tell you that cell phone of his helped us when we didnt have a home phone and he came by for a visit.
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• India
2 Dec 06
As long as the mobile isn't a fancy one with all the latest gadgets incorporated into it, that's fine. I totally agree with your point of view, 11 is an age when children should start learning to accept new responsibilities and having a mobile with such limited options is a good beginning. Only after seeing him grow into a responsible teenager can you give him a mobile. Good topic to think a bit, thanks. Good luck, bye.
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I don't think there is anything wrong with that. We're planning on getting our daughter a cell phone when she starts pre-school. You never know when they're going to need help and that cell phone will come in handy if you ask me. I think any age would be appropriate to get your child a cell phone for safety reasons.
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Honestly I think pre-school is way too early. My youngest is hopefully starting pre-school in january when she turns 3 and that is way too soon for her to have a cell phone. She wont know how to use it. Plus kids at that age loose things way too easily, it would get lost.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I have seen those phones!!! I think those phones are great if you are using it for your kids but want to control who they are calling. I think the only bad thing is, anyone can call them. My kids share a cell phone. Which is important to us because if they have a game to go to or if they are going to a friend's house, I want them to be able to call me anytime and vice versa. Their not home...you know they have no excuse saying that they could call!
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I love my son's phone. You are right there is NO reason that they cant call. That is another reaason for my son having his own phone.
@gknott (936)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I think the age where you start to leave them alone some, like going to the movie with other kids or sports events and you go back to pick them up later. If you can afford one, I have bought my son a cheap prepaid phone that all you have to buy is $20.00 every 90 days. This way it doesn't get out of hand.
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I can understand where you are coming from that is why I like my son's phone. Because an adult has to program it for him so there are no unauthorised calles at all.
@j27366 (293)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
i think 11 y/o is fine. if you can get a prepaid cellphone (use of cards to load credits), that'll be economical. tell your son to be very careful in using up credits. use the phone for important calls and text messages only. it also helps your son to develop good sense of responsibility. my sister gave her son a cellphone when he was 11 y/o (he's now 13.) and no problems arose so far about it.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
2 Dec 06
The phone he has is called a FireFly and it has NO numbers on it. So he cant text any one. An adult has to program it for him so that there are only important numbers that he needs on it.
@chukwudi (1098)
• Nigeria
2 Dec 06
cell phones are made for adults not children unless you are talking about the toy cell phone
• United States
2 Dec 06
I don't see anything wrong with that. Especially if its made for a child and he cn't run up the bill. It could come in handy in case of an emergency.
@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
I feel that it's way too early for an 11 year old to have a cellphone because he's still studying right,it may cause distractions sometimes.I had my first cellphone when I was 17 and its on prepaid plan.But what you've posted, the phone he has is for emergency use, well it's fine in case he has someone to call when he badly needs it.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
2 Dec 06
He dosnt take his phone to school. It is not allowed at all or else the phone gets taken away. The thing is my son is very responsible for an 11yr old.
• United States
2 Dec 06
I think the phone he has sounds perfect. I wouldn't want my kid talking all night/day on the cellphone. It sounds like you have it set up for emergencies - I think that's a great idea. Especially if you have a kid involved in activities where they have to call you to pick them up.
• India
2 Dec 06
17 is the appropriate age for a child to have a cell phone. that is the child should have finish schooling,perhaps u can present a phone on thier first day of coll.
• United States
2 Dec 06
My 6 and 7 year old step daughters both have cell phones
@vikkyhyd (75)
• India
2 Dec 06
cell does not have any age bar..it should be used when it is really necessary..
• India
2 Dec 06
This type of phone is fine but the actual phones shouldnt be given before 16 years of age as it affects studies a lot and helps him/her getting involved in time wasting activity.!!
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
2 Dec 06
From one point of view cell phones are necessary toa child as with one they are readyu to avoid danger or warn the parents for immediate danger. But I would prefer special call button that doctors have or the securities are giving. The damage made by a cellphone to child's brain is HUGE. Don't even dream to give your child a cellphone again.
@taraka (717)
• India
2 Dec 06
after 18
@annieja (589)
• United States
2 Dec 06
my nephew has one of those cell phones that has like 6 buttons. one is 911 and one is home. the other 4 keys, he can program a number, like his mother's cell number, dad's work number. the nice thing about it, he can't call someone that isn't programed on his buttons, but people can call him. he is 7 years old. that type of phone is a good idea for younger kids.
@ezzrssi (11188)
• Italy
2 Dec 06
I think 16 is a good age
• Romania
2 Dec 06
come on now!!!!who are the ppl who are saying that an 11 years old kid can not have a cell?the cell's are for everyone.my lil gf was 9 years old when he had cell phone.the cell wore not made only for the adults.the cell's are for anyone so they can use them for what they need and for the kids to call theyr parents for emergencyes...its strange that are ppl how are thinking that cells are bad for the kids.so..i understand that your son's cell phone has been changed so he can not add in it phone numebrs and stuff..you shouldent do that...its not bad for him to have a cell...think about it...cells are ok.you just have to make him understand that he wont be able to use it when he is in the class....this is my oppinion
@picranto (209)
• Pakistan
2 Dec 06
i think teenagers must have mobiles with them this is the rite age for them and before tht its use less for them