September 14, 2006 5:52am CST
This could be very dangerous if you have a live-in lover. All you both do is to have series of disagreements most of your times. this is very unhealthy. it might result in giving you a wrong signal for marriage. on the other hand if you live apart from your lover, then you can read him or her and think if he or she is ok to make a good wife or husband. it is very healthy to study your partner, not as close as living together before marriage.
3 responses
• India
25 Sep 06
• United States
25 Sep 06
I lived with my hubsband before we got married. We find out that we get along very well. Everything worked out fine for us. If you live with your bf/gf, you can see how your marriage life going to be and I think it a good practice for both men and women to see if they can work their marriage last. I dont want to marry someone and find out we dont get along.
24 Sep 06
Surely it would make more sense to live with the person before hand to iron out all those first-time living together niggles and go out to oncebe married have a settled home life?