What causes a person like to be busy when talking and difficult to explain something?

March 10, 2023 8:29am CST
I'm one of those people who talk when they talk :) I even find it very difficult to explain what I think and what I want to say. So many things I think about, the more passionate I want to say that, but the more grouse I talk. I realized one thing, the reason is because I rarely listen to. If I want to talk about something, I feel like no one wants to listen. It started from harboring all the things I wanted to say. Since I've never been listened to, I don't know what it's like to be listened to. I was so busy listening to others that I realized that I was very rarely listened to. Even though I have a lot of things to say, I just need a good listener and am interested in what I say. But apparently no one was interested, so I kept everything myself. That's what I realize why my talk likes to be grouse. It turned out that because I didn't know what it was like to listen to, and I was too busy listening. " Why say it? Other people won't listen to him either. " That's a word that often comes to my mind when I want to say something. Because I've never been listened to, the less I talk, that's why when someone wants to listen to me and there are many things I think about, once I talk when I say it, I always talk. Because I'm not used to talking, the things I want to say are unstructured. Guess so.
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@Gotrix (202)
11 Mar 23
Learn to listen and structure your thoughts to make it easier to express them in conversation. Don't be afraid to take the initiative in communication, but remember that it's important not only to speak, but also to listen.
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@Aquitaine24 (11651)
• San Jose, California
10 Mar 23
Talking when you talk is an interesting concept.
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• Canada
17 Mar 23
I can totally relate to the part where you feel like no one is listening when you speak. I guess that is why I don't talk as much. However, I am a listener because I know how it feels when people don't listen to what you have to say.