Real Success
By Arya
@yoalldudes (35035)
Philippines
March 12, 2023 10:40pm CST
I saved a comment to a youtube video which says not dreading Monday waking up in the morning happy and excited about life is the real success, not the luxurious life and expensive cars.
I hope to one day have that feeling. But for now, I am still buying some buy it for life (BIFL) items. Examples are durable shoes, quality wardrobe, and jewelries. I also buy 6 months worth of food staples and house supplies during bonuses. It just makes me feel secured that I have the things I need.
I have a 300sq m piece of lot and I hope that it will appreciate in value in the future. Eversince I learned not everyone cant rely on a partner is when I decided to be independent and learn to take good care of myself and my daughter.
Once she graduates in 3 years it will ease up my finances even more. I am inspired by mylotter Sojourner in having delicious but very affordable meals. I think I will be fine if I live frugally.
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8 responses
@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
14 Mar 23
That is very true. I watch Shawna Ripari on no buy year and contentment challenge.
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@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
14 Mar 23
@Adie04 To be honest I would have loved to do what she advice but the world is not normal now. With the currency crisis going on, I think saving is not enough.
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@Adie04 (17358)
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14 Mar 23
@yoalldudes Is there any that you have been able to be successful from the video?
@merrybelle2021 (1392)
• Philippines
13 Mar 23
You must have a lot of space to store 6 months' worth of food and house supplies.
@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
I dont have that much space. I cleared out under the kitchen counter and put dishwashing liquid and powdered soap there. We cant stock up on perishables like meat so I am planning on raising chicken.
@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
19 Mar 23
@merrybelle2021 Thankfully its summer. My stepdad ensures they have enough water to drink.
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@merrybelle2021 (1392)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
@yoalldudes Just make sure they're safe from rainwater.
@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
13 Mar 23
I know that's your thing. I love good quality sound, maybe that's another BIFL I ought to buy first.
@LindaOHio (188285)
• United States
17 Mar 23
I'm glad to hear that you are providing for yourself and the future for you and your daughter. Have a great weekend.
@aureliah (24334)
• Kenya
13 Mar 23
You are doing very well. Even if you have a partner, do not depend on them fully
@yoalldudes (35035)
• Philippines
13 Mar 23
Life is not easy for everyone. Sometimes we make wrong choices that lead us to difficult lives.
We work on what we have.
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@Gotrix (202)
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13 Mar 23
You saved a comment on YouTube that talks about success not being about luxury, but about living a happy and inspired life. You also mention buying things that can last a lifetime to feel secure. You are inspired by living modestly and taking care of yourself and your daughter.
@jefferson126 (3371)
• Shenzhen, China
13 Mar 23
everybody wanna rely on a partner,but finally everybody found only themself are reliable.I agreed to the definition of real success.I like frugal and bland life.
