My father wants to leave when we have too many problems

@dya80dya (32214)
July 4, 2023 2:32pm CST
I told him about my problems and he wants to leave. I wonder if this is normal. He is tired of problems and he wants to avoid them. I can understand this, but we need his help. At least we need kind words and support. He doesn't know how to offer those, but he wants to leave us. He is threatening us with different things. He is so angry. I am worried for him.
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@jstory07 (132723)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jul
Your Father should want to help you when you have problems.
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@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
It's true. He prefers what it's easier.
@RasmaSandra (71409)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Jul
Your father should realize how much you rely on him and need his support, I sure hope he does not leave,
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@RasmaSandra (71409)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jul
@dya80dya I will put in a prayer for you that everything works out
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@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
I hope the same. He has his own problems and doesn't seem to care about me.
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@dya80dya (32214)
17 Jul
@RasmaSandra Thank you.
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@AmbiePam (83413)
• United States
4 Jul
That isn't normal behavior. Unless, has he always been like that? Not all, but a lot of fathers usually step up when their family is having problems.
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@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
Yes, he was always like that. My mom cares a lot and she is trying to help me. My father is absent.
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@AmbiePam (83413)
• United States
13 Jul
@dya80dya I hope you all know you guys have done nothing wrong.
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@dya80dya (32214)
17 Jul
@AmbiePam I know. He has different problems.
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@RebeccasFarm (81395)
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
14 Jul
He surely will not leave.
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• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
17 Jul
@dya80dya Sorry he is doing that.
@dya80dya (32214)
17 Jul
Yes, but he keeps saying that.
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@aninditasen (15442)
• Raurkela, India
5 Jul
Not all old people are brave enough to solve problems and support their children in times of trouble. My father was a very supportive person but on the other hand my mother-in-law was a pest in troubled times.
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@aninditasen (15442)
• Raurkela, India
14 Jul
@dya80dya People who are pests have to be kept away in difficult times. That's the reason I stayed away from her when my children were born.
@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
My father is a pest too in troubled times.
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14 Jul
You are right. He should help you with talk.
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@dya80dya (32214)
17 Jul
He is too angry to help me.
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18 Jul
@dya80dya I stopped talking to my father. My life is better since then.
@rsa101 (37905)
• Philippines
5 Jul
Well, I do not know but I think he is avoiding being involved in your problem. I think for a person like that you do not need him around as it may worsen your situation and him around not wanting to help is not good. I am sad to know that.
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@rsa101 (37905)
• Philippines
14 Jul
@dya80dya I guess if you can live without him around you, your life would be much better.
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@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
Yes. When I tell him how I feel he becomes angry. I have a better relationship with strangers. He worsens my situation.
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@RubyHawk (99444)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Jul
Maybe you dad has more worrisome problems than you. He might need your help. I would ask him about that.
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@RubyHawk (99444)
• Atlanta, Georgia
14 Jul
@dya80dya My dad wasn't a dad type of person either.
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@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
He has several problems, but he doesn't seem to care about my problems.
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• United States
5 Jul
I'm sorry he's so angry, this is not a pleasant way to live.
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@dya80dya (32214)
13 Jul
He is angry all the time.