My father wants to leave when we have too many problems

@dya80dya (35542)
July 4, 2023 2:32pm CST
I told him about my problems and he wants to leave. I wonder if this is normal. He is tired of problems and he wants to avoid them. I can understand this, but we need his help. At least we need kind words and support. He doesn't know how to offer those, but he wants to leave us. He is threatening us with different things. He is so angry. I am worried for him.
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@jstory07 (135930)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jul 23
Your Father should want to help you when you have problems.
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@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
It's true. He prefers what it's easier.
@RasmaSandra (76340)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Jul 23
Your father should realize how much you rely on him and need his support, I sure hope he does not leave,
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@RasmaSandra (76340)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jul 23
@dya80dya I will put in a prayer for you that everything works out
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@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
I hope the same. He has his own problems and doesn't seem to care about me.
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@dya80dya (35542)
17 Jul 23
@RasmaSandra Thank you.
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@AmbiePam (87819)
• United States
4 Jul 23
That isn't normal behavior. Unless, has he always been like that? Not all, but a lot of fathers usually step up when their family is having problems.
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@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
Yes, he was always like that. My mom cares a lot and she is trying to help me. My father is absent.
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@AmbiePam (87819)
• United States
13 Jul 23
@dya80dya I hope you all know you guys have done nothing wrong.
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@dya80dya (35542)
17 Jul 23
@AmbiePam I know. He has different problems.
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@RebeccasFarm (87335)
• United States
14 Jul 23
He surely will not leave.
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• United States
17 Jul 23
@dya80dya Sorry he is doing that.
@dya80dya (35542)
17 Jul 23
Yes, but he keeps saying that.
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@aninditasen (16033)
• Raurkela, India
5 Jul 23
Not all old people are brave enough to solve problems and support their children in times of trouble. My father was a very supportive person but on the other hand my mother-in-law was a pest in troubled times.
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@aninditasen (16033)
• Raurkela, India
14 Jul 23
@dya80dya People who are pests have to be kept away in difficult times. That's the reason I stayed away from her when my children were born.
@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
My father is a pest too in troubled times.
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14 Jul 23
You are right. He should help you with talk.
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@dya80dya (35542)
17 Jul 23
He is too angry to help me.
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18 Jul 23
@dya80dya I stopped talking to my father. My life is better since then.
@rsa101 (38076)
• Philippines
5 Jul 23
Well, I do not know but I think he is avoiding being involved in your problem. I think for a person like that you do not need him around as it may worsen your situation and him around not wanting to help is not good. I am sad to know that.
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@rsa101 (38076)
• Philippines
14 Jul 23
@dya80dya I guess if you can live without him around you, your life would be much better.
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@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
Yes. When I tell him how I feel he becomes angry. I have a better relationship with strangers. He worsens my situation.
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@RubyHawk (99410)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Jul 23
Maybe you dad has more worrisome problems than you. He might need your help. I would ask him about that.
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@RubyHawk (99410)
• Atlanta, Georgia
14 Jul 23
@dya80dya My dad wasn't a dad type of person either.
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@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
He has several problems, but he doesn't seem to care about my problems.
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• United States
5 Jul 23
I'm sorry he's so angry, this is not a pleasant way to live.
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@dya80dya (35542)
13 Jul 23
He is angry all the time.