That's what's missing

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@DWDavis (25797)
United States
August 4, 2023 12:30pm CST
Today is the last weekday of Summer Break for the staff and faculty at my old school. Monday, they start teacher workdays. Normally, by this time in August, I would already have been out to the school to start getting my classroom ready, prepare for the first day of school, update my parent letter, set up a new Google Classroom site, and a host of other little tasks that we never seemed to have time for on the actual workdays because of meetings and Staff Development sessions. And there would have been a sense of anticipation and excitement at the prospect of a new school year with a new group of kids to get to know, nurture, and cherish. Such was my life for the past 21 years. This year, it's all happening again, just without me. Instead of walking into the school Monday morning for my first official day of the new school year, I'll be relaxing at a campsite on Jordan Lake and wondering if I want to take the kayak out for a paddle or just go for a long walk around the campground with Sophie. I'm missing the sadness of the end of Summer Break mixed with the anticipation of a new school year. But, don't worry, I'm sure I'll get over - What was I going on about?
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Aug 23
I'm sure you'll get over it as soon as you get to Jordan Lake (or even way before ).
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Aug 23
@DWDavis I think you were over it before you were actually over it .
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
4 Aug 23
I tried to indicate with the way I ended the discussion that I might be over it already.
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@AmbiePam (120683)
• United States
4 Aug 23
Did you have a different job before you started teaching, or was it your only vocation ever?
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@AmbiePam (120683)
• United States
5 Aug 23
@DWDavis What made you want to change jobs?
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
5 Aug 23
I worked as an accountant for 12 years before becoming a teacher.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
5 Aug 23
@AmbiePam I felt I was being called to the classroom, and accounting was never the field I wanted to be in. It just seemed the most practical course of study at the time.
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@FourWalls (86621)
• United States
4 Aug 23
Hmm, separation anxiety. I recommend two nights camping, and call nobody in the morning.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
4 Aug 23
I'm not sure two nights is enough. Maybe I should go for seven. Oh, yeah, I am going for seven. Sorted.
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@wolfgirl569 (135663)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Aug 23
I know you will be okay soon.
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@RasmaSandra (97991)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Aug 23
I am sure you will get over it quickly and be glad you are out there in nature kayaking and camping, Nothing worked and posted online all day today. I hope you have a great weekend,
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
4 Aug 23
I am working as special educator and counselor for the last 15 years and I can very well relate to all that you have mentioned. Why are you not going back to school? I assume it to be retirement.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
4 Aug 23
I retired as of June 3 after 21 years of teaching, which followed a 12-year accounting career.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
5 Aug 23
@DWDavis Hmm... That's a milestone in the life. I am sure that you will get used to the retirement life soon and make best of it
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@jstory07 (148731)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Aug 23
Did you retire? You will love being retired.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
4 Aug 23
I retired on June 3. So far, the best thing about retirement has been being able to go on longer camping trips.
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@jstory07 (148731)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Aug 23
@DWDavis Now you can go where you want to go. Do what you want to do. Just enjoy life.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
5 Aug 23
@jstory07 My freedom to go where I want is limited by the fact that my wife is still working.
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@Juliaacv (56196)
• Canada
5 Aug 23
You are very blessed to have been able to retire. I know many people who lost their jobs due to closures or poor health and couldn't walk out of work on their own accord to enjoy retirement. My hubby retired the third week of February, and he couldn't be happier, he is also very busy helping to care for our twin grandchildren. Things will slow down as they age and especially when they start to school, and that will be when I retire. I need to work as long as I can to keep my mind active, there is alot of dementia in my family. I will probably go from working to senile, but I try not to think of that, as it may not happen.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
4 Aug 23
How lucky are you. That was my life4 also for many years. For the first year I missed it. I soon got over it.
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@Deepizzaguy (122103)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
4 Aug 23
I can relate to what you are going through in retirement from working as a teacher at school since I do miss working my former job in the pizza business and now enjoying my work as a good news writer on this site,
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@Ronrybs (21500)
• London, England
6 Aug 23
I know which I'd prefer and I have never been a teacher!
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Aug 23
I don’t think you have anything to worry about. You’ll be just fine.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
5 Aug 23
I'll just have to get used to the idea.
@LindaOHio (222319)
• United States
5 Aug 23
There are sometimes I still miss work even after 13 years of being retired....but I quickly get over it when I remember the office politics and drama and two-faced people!!! Then I don't regret being retired AT ALL. Enjoy your weekend.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
6 Aug 23
I remind myself of all the changes going on in the Diocese and at the school when I start to miss it and those things remind me of why I'm glad I won't be there.
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@LindaOHio (222319)
• United States
7 Aug 23
@DWDavis Yup. You don't have to deal with any of that anymore!
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@Anqaya (3031)
• United States
4 Aug 23
I wish I was already retired lol. U will miss them, but u get to go to vacations whenever u want now. Isn't that great!!
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