WHAT R THE REASONS OF DIVORCE?

@SONALIKA (573)
India
December 1, 2006 10:55pm CST
i don't understand how can somebody ask for a divorce from the personwith whom one is so much in love to get committed for whole life . can any one explain ht to me?
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@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
4 Dec 06
We really don't know how long we are compatible with our partner. Maybe there's such a time that both sides really give up the things they started. Commonly, the reasons behind is this. It's either, third party, whom one is having relationship with another where his partner never knew. Or a mistake of accepting a marriage even there's no love exist, because of hoping that love can be learned. Until such long time goes and then suddenly, to realize that it can't be learned. And even when people change, environment change, and so forth, that love is not been kept, that the mind and heart is much focused to other (work, wealth, power, popularity, etc.) then, mislead to slaughter the good relationship and break the stand of strong feelings. As we know, being hurt again and again that is never been healed and never been replaced by happiness, causes by some following reason like the above, result the heart to be dry and empty, just like it seems it is so hard to feel, like stone, and finally head to breaking up and divorce.
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• India
2 Dec 06
one shouldnot take things so serious.either of them should b cool.r else it ends up with divorce.and the elders related to them should also have the resposibility to say that they should not do so.once the r married even thought the parter is good r bad we should try to change them.
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
2 Dec 06
exactly i also believe in same thing but i wanted to know those reasons. still thanks
@blueman (16509)
• India
2 Dec 06
i think misunderstanding, or lack of love and trust.
@binky22 (33)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I am a 22yr old single mom of 2. My husband and I are going through a divorce. Our divorce was caused by the fact that he always thinks hes right and I am wrong and he has a bad attitude. He gets mad at me and goes out to bars and spends a couple hundred dollars. Also we were together for 3 1/2 yrs and 2 1/2 of them he has spent working out of the state ot country so i never got to see him. We are both very stubborn and fight over everything. We just dont get along anymore and our relationship turned to hate. There is alot more to it but its too much to type.
@orejin (198)
• India
9 Jan 07
i dont know....as i am not married.../