Managing Bullies at Work

@Shavkat (137213)
Philippines
December 4, 2023 8:04pm CST
I must admit that I am not that stressed out working with bosses who are bullies at work. The typical scenario is when they start bullying workers to work harder and scaring them with layoffs. I used to experience this with a former company. Some virtual teachers are worried because it is not easy to work from scratch in teaching online, and that includes me. The feeling changed when I found a new one and got another for backup. Either way, if they fire me, I can still have a job that I can fall back on. That is why I tend to ignore the management for bullying me. Of course, I still voice my sentiment towards them, but in a professional way. How do you manage bullies at work? Image Credit: bicontent.businessinsurance.com
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@RebeccasFarm (86775)
• United States
5 Dec
Well, I never really worked online, but in former jobs..I would walk right up to the bully boss and ask them could they repeat what they said? And they would not.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
5 Dec
I am also vocal during my offline job days. I cannot endure being bullied by a boss. That is the reason why I resigned from the government agency because of this.
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• United States
5 Dec
@Shavkat And I am glad you resigned from it.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
6 Dec
@RebeccasFarm I am proud of myself for doing so. I had a big lesson with the previous company.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
5 Dec
I think I'm very lucky to have very friendly colleagues. I always make sure to check out the company's culture before I get the job. It's important to have a warm atmosphere at work.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
6 Dec
@Shavkat I've been working online for 10 years now. I guess I'm just lucky not to have toxic people around. Ignoring the bullies can work for some time. Good thing you have a backup plan.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
7 Dec
@cherriefic The backup company is far better than this company. Japanese students are more polite to teach.
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
5 Dec
It is easy to know a company's culture offline. Online companies can be known if starting to work them. Despite of it, I still voice out my sentiments towards the management. It is also a blessing in disguise when I resigned in my previous job for more than 8 years. Now, I am working with two companies.l if ever the working relationship with this company turns sour, I can still have the other company as a backup.
@snowy22315 (170089)
• United States
5 Dec
That is a tough one especially when they are our direct supervisors. Can you work for another company that treats you etter?
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
5 Dec
Ignoring is the key to manage this company's issue. I still have one more company that I am working with. It is my backup if things didn't work out with this company. In fact, the representative cannot control me because I am so vocal if she is trying to bully me.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
5 Dec
Good you have an alternative
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
6 Dec
Thank God and angels for guiding me.
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@just4him (306538)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Dec
It's sad when management bullies you. They did not bully me when I worked. I did my best, and they knew it.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
6 Dec
Despite being bullied, I still stand firm with my statements with them.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
7 Dec
@just4him I think it is a good thing and let them be reminded that I am not a robot.
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@just4him (306538)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Dec
@Shavkat That's good you do.
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@lazydaizee (6738)
• United Kingdom
7 Dec
Bullies are awful especially in the workplace. You can only do your best and work as hard as you can. I know somebody who is being bullied at work and it makes him unhappy at home too.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
13 Dec
When I am still working in my previous jobs offline, I tried not to mingle with these people. However, I made it clear that never dare to attack me below the belt.
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@ogbenishyna (2950)
13 Dec
Ignoring bullies is not the best way to handle them, you have to bark at them sometimes to create some fear.