Does anyone else think this guy is looking for money?
By ElicBxn
@ElicBxn (63235)
United States
December 31, 2023 10:52pm CST
He requested my friendship, then after I accepted him, he went and asked my FB friends to be friends. After the first few lines I suggested they not do it... I did waste some of his time...
bryanfredrick - Hello Elic
How are you doing today?
I am sorry you don't know me i was browsing through my suggestion list when i came across your eye catching profile and thought of knowing more about you,i hope you are not mad?
You sent - My profile picture is of a stick figure with arrows pointing at it and saying 'ow'
bryanfredrick - It's my pleasure to meet you here so where are you from?
You sent - Texas
bryanfredrick - Nice place...I'm originally from Berlin Germany ???? but live in the USA, I'm currently working in Dublin Ireland ????.
So,if I may ask are you happily married with kids?
You sent - I'm widowed with cats
bryanfredrick - Am sorry for your lost
I am a widower for 4 years now.I couldn't believe it. But that's life for you my dear, I realized I had to be strong for my little Angels Tracy she's my joy and happiness, I love her very much with all my Heart.
You sent - my wife died in '22
bryanfredrick - How old are you
You sent - 70
bryanfredrick - This is my sister she is looking for a husband
You sent - ???
does she like science fiction?
does she attend fan conventions?
bryanfredrick - Yes
You sent - what kind?
bryanfredrick - Elic don't really know about her but you will need to talk with her
You sent - Oh, I guess I should ask - does she like women?
bryanfredrick - No,she likes old men
You sent - well, I'm not one of those
I'm old, but not a man
bryanfredrick - Are you a womam or a man
You sent - a woman
I had been playing a game where there were 3 other people with my first name, so I changed it
bryanfredrick -What do you do for Cruise? I mean what are your fun activities?
I don't understand
You sent - I have a chronic illness, I can't walk well, I have serious food allergies, and I have 1 dog and 12 cats - 4 are outside feral cats.
Yes, I married a long time roommate when it became legal
bryanfredrick - I enjoy, cooking, swimming???????????? , and reading, walking on the beach, fishing ????,and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors mountain biking , camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography ?? and also spending some time out with my daughter.
Do you love going to the beach ???????
You sent - I did when I was a kid, used to go to my grandfather's in NJ. He had a shore house there - the water was so cold! Last beach I walked on was... 2003 on Long Beach Island in NJ, my mom, brother and I went to see my uncle - Mom's brother, who had a stroke and was now living with his son
In '07 I was in Atlantic City, my cousin passed away
bryanfredrick - I'm sorry for him
Do you love traveling all over the world ?????? Can you tell me where have you been traveling to?
You sent - Uncle Joe passed in... 2015 or so
bryanfredrick - I'm very about your lost
Do you love traveling all over the world ?????? Can you tell me where have you been traveling to?
You sent - I've been to London three times, and back in '69, on the family trip that was our first visit to London, we then went to Vienna - to see the horses, but they were sick. We went to Rome, where I already know I loved ruins and loved it. From there to Zurich and finally Paris, where it rained! Of course it rained when almost all the touristy things were closed
bryanfredrick - I have travel,to many countries,like belin Germany,north Carolina state, Switzerland county,New Zealand, and Australia
What's your favorite color you love most?
You sent - purple like my avatar... but more purple
The last time I went to England, was with my future wife and we went for a Tomorrow People get together
bryanfredrick - Elic I just want you to understand that I find you interesting and I just want to keep up with you steady communication in a private place besides FB, and let's really make out time for make out time for communication on a daily basis just to get to know each other deeper than the surface, what do you think?
You sent - I'm not going to that other chat place Wazzup or whatever it is
only FB
bryanfredrick - Do you have Google chat?
Can I have your email address so we can keep in touch with each other on Google chat if I may ask? Elic????
You sent - no, I don't have Google chat, and no - here or nowhere - and I'm not normally here that much
bryanfredrick - Can you download it on your phone
You sent - no
bryanfredrick - I'm not normally at here much because of my work
You sent - oh, so you're some kind of spring chick... I'm not a cougar - even if people thought I was my wife's mother...
bryanfredrick - Good. I'm a Marine Engineer. I'm currently serving in the Oil Platform (Oil Rig) here in Ireland
You sent - one of my friends got her degree in marine biology, but got her doctorate in butterflies
bryanfredrick - I'm going to bad ?????? I'm going to text you when I wake up .... Go and download it on your phone
You sent - no - everything I've ever tried to download f*cked up my phone
bryanfredrick - Just private chat only because of my job that why I asked u to download it please please ????
You sent - son, I have so much other stuff on my poor old phone, apps just don't have the room to launch correctly
besides, it could run up my phone bill
bryanfredrick - No
You are not going to pay any bill
(he sent me a link)
Click on the link so you can download it
You sent - I'm on my computer
why do you think I can respond so quickly
I did data entry before I had to retire
bryanfredrick - Yes you can still download it on your computer
That's the quick way
You sent - not unless my geek is here to make sure it is okay
old brain ya know
bryanfredrick - My name is Bryan not brain
You sent - yes, your name is Bryan, but my brain is old
I only learned how to do the emoji on chat this summer
bryanfredrick - If you want me to be happy
(sent the link again)
Download Google chat on your phone or your computer
Good night ??????????????
You sent - I'm not looking for a relationship
good grief - it must be 3 a.m. over there, maybe 2
bryanfredrick - Hello ??
You sent - hello
bryanfredrick - How was your day today
You sent - Migraine, again
So, do you work on an oil rig?
bryanfredrick - Yes Sweetheart
Have you downloaded it
You sent - I told you I wasn't going to.
I have a friend who worked on a rig in the Gulf of Mexico for a while
I guess I just don't understand why you want to chat up an old lesbian like me
bryanfredrick - Can I have a picture of you
(I sent him one.)
bryanfredrick - You really look beautiful and attractive.??????
Well I'm an exciting,thoughtful and compassionate man with a strong passion for life. I'm optimistic and warm and see everyday as a new beginning to life. I have been through a lot as a man and have conquered much opposition in life as well and would love to meet someone who'll understand how been hurt feels and would love to find a honest relationship, I want the love that's been locked in my heart for so long to be unlocked by that special lady.
You sent - I'm not that gal...
bryanfredrick - Life is special and I like to wake up feeling excited of what the new day brings, even if that means bouncing off the planets.Imagine opening your eyes each and every morning and smiling at the thought that this new day is completely different and brings new excitement, and that the person you're with feels exactly the same way.
You sent - I guess I'm in too much pain to bounce out of anything. I do have a chronic illness.
bryanfredrick - I am an optimist who believes that everything happens for a good reason and You never know what destiny has for you and someone together.
You sent - Yeah, and when I married my wife, I didn't think we'd only have 5 and a half years together.
bryanfredrick - I'm looking for a lady, who's ready for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage, a sincere, honest, caring, understanding and loving lady to spend the rest of my life with. Well, I want to love and to be loved, what about you dear?
You sent - I lived over 60 years never planning on getting married. I married my wife because she needed the security of knowing if something were to happen to me - I am 7 years older - she'd get the house. She also needed to not have her parents be able to call the shots if something were to happen to her. And we loved each other as sisters. Now that I'm a widow, I plan on staying single unless something of this nature shows up again.
bryanfredrick - May the wishes of our heart come to pass.
Well, I don't think that the age difference or distance between us should be a barrier, rather, the most important thing is for us to be sure if we really find understanding, happiness and joy within each other. Above all, I think love is the greatest, don't you also think so?
You sent - I'm not so sure about that...
bryanfredrick - I see! well, I'm on relief assignment and I'll be retiring from my service by the end of next month, so if everything eventually works out great between us, we will definitely be together by the end of next month so that we can begin to commence with a future plan for ourselves. I really want to know more about you.
You sent - well, you got my facebook page
I got called away briefly to see Boris sleeping the the base of the crockpot...
bryanfredrick - How long have you been single without a husband?
You sent - I've never had a husband, I've never wanted a husband.
bryanfredrick - So don't you feel lonely sometimes?
You sent - no
bryanfredrick - I mean loneliness of not having a your man next to you?
You sent - I NEVER wanted a man... unless he was Illya Kuryakin
bryanfredrick - As for me, I feel lonely a lot of times and that's why I need to find my true love, a person that will love me as much as I'll love her. I have a feeling that destiny brought us together for a reason.
As time passes by, we'll find out if we're compatible with each other.
You sent - but you're in Ireland
bryanfredrick - Just only 6 months contract
From my own opinion, when it comes to marriage, there's actually nothing superior than being with your soul mate, some one who truely adores you, understands you, cherishes and loves you the way you are, don't you think so?
You sent - I would say so... but only because that's what I saw in my parents. My sister and I didn't want a man. She married her wife 8 days before I married mine.
But she didn't marry for convenience, she married for love, romantic love.
bryanfredrick - It really takes strenght, patience, understanding and discipline to build a responsible family where there's love, peace and harmony and that's the kind of family I want, what about you?
You sent - No, I want cats.
bryanfredrick - I think you don't love a man that love you
Goodbye
You sent - you don't even know me, you can't love me like that - good bye
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2 responses
@2ndchances24 (4879)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
1 Jan
that was a long conversation to read but I got the just of it all
& I had a conversation like that 1 time & it cost me 400$ & my
facebook page to never see again DON'T TRUST HIM ! !
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@popciclecold (35203)
• United States
1 Jan
Sorry this happened to you. Have to be more careful.
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@2ndchances24 (4879)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
1 Jan
@popciclecold yeah, that's a little late
I have never been able to get back on fb.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
1 Jan
@2ndchances24 you probably could with a different email. If you really want to try. I'm sorry it happened, but I went into it suspecting what it was. I was really careful about what I told him and I was sure to not go to the link he wanted me to go to. And I would never do things like that with my phone - but I did tell the truth... except about the lesbian part...
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@BarBaraPrz (45514)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
1 Jan
You must have been really, really bored to keep up answering his questions. I don't bother replying to those requests myself, why did you?
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