Good afternoon.
@kaylachan (84780)
Daytona Beach, Florida
January 13, 2024 12:10pm CST
It was a long night. George didn't oversleep, in fact he was awake an hour earlier than usual. Downside, I had a huge mess to clean up. And, he wonders why I bought a four pack of padding for our bed. I have the one pad and the laundry in the washer. Might have to do a second load today. Joys of dealing with the fall out of a stroke. George is tired, doesn't feel like doing much, but one day at a time. He's alive, he's home, and if that means a little extra work for me, so be it.
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@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 24
I suffered my own health challenges. I still do today. I also grew up with termenally ill parents, who I lost barely into adulthood. I know a lot more than I care to. But, I wouldn't trade it for the world.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
13 Jan 24
I pray that this time will pass quickly Kayla..I know tis a lot of work. And George wants to be fully healed .
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@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 24
I won't like the water bill, but I needed to wash the bedding anyway. It was already part of the plan.
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@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 24
@RebeccasFarm Yeah, nothing we can't handle. Bying products I never thought I would have to buy.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
13 Jan 24
@kaylachan Yes so already going to do it anyway. Oh dang the bills are atrocious I know.
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@FourWalls (86680)
• United States
13 Jan 24
I know you feel grateful and prefer the extra work to the alternative. I never minded doing for my elderly aunt, and I wish she were still here for me to do for! 
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@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 24
I am sure you miss her a lot. I know the words are shallow, but she's in a better place. It was also kind and caring of you to care for her, too. I'm sure she'll be greatful for that.
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@FourWalls (86680)
• United States
13 Jan 24
@kaylachan — they aren’t shallow words. I “lost” my aunt the day I went to the nursing home and she thought I was my mother, not recognizing ME at all. That’s what Alhzeimer’s does…it robs you twice. I’m a firm believer in God, and I KNOW she’s in a better place!!!
And I know that sometimes you will want to catch your breath and have a “me moment.” Don’t feel guilty about that!
@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 24
I don't feel much like a carer. I still feel like a wife. Just with extra laundry.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
14 Jan 24
When a dear one is home after lot of suffering we do feel relieved though we have a lot extra work to do.
@LindaOHio (222302)
• United States
14 Jan 24
Being a caregiver is tough work; but doing it for someone you love is so worthwhile. Wishing you and George the best.
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@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Jan 24
I could never be a caregiver for a stranger. I would only do it for George because I love him so much. And, sure, more house work for me, but it's well worth it.
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@snowy22315 (208890)
• United States
13 Jan 24
Oh gosh that is awful..Like you said though he is alive and home. Hopefully he can improve in that area.
@jstory07 (148730)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jan 24
You are doing a great job with him. I am glad he is home.
@RasmaSandra (98005)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jan 24
I know things will get better and as you say he is alive and with you and many blessing to you both,
