30 Years of Life Over But Mentally I am 25 years!
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@anya12adwi (10264)
India
October 31, 2024 2:25pm CST
Very soon I will complete my 29 years of age and will enter into 30th year of life after a month!!
I had many goals for myself which I count complete health wise and knowledge wise!!
I still feel I am mentally 24-25 years of age because my life kind of got stuck after 2019 due to pandemic and I took 2-3 years to be now well off!!
So, how was your 30s mylotters and what do you suggest me or advice me to do in my 30s??
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13 responses
@Shivram59 (46193)
• India
1 Nov 24
Only one suggestion.Everyone has a child in them.Never let the child in you die.
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
1 Nov 24
My child within me in ventilator! Hope, it comes out from coma!
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@snowy22315 (199951)
• United States
2 Nov 24
30's for me were a but tumultous, but basically good as my son was young.
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
4 Nov 24
@snowy22315 Okay.. Hope now everything is okay!! And you are doing good now!
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@allknowing (153926)
• India
2 Nov 24
Good to know your level is that of 24-25 years and not a child that drools
I do not think you need any advice - you I notice can take care of yourself
I do not think you need any advice - you I notice can take care of yourself2 people like this
@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
2 Nov 24
Not a child definitely!! Thank you for your faith in me!1 person likes this
@everwonderwhy (7355)
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2 Nov 24
You feel young, fit, healthy and resilient. Work hard, save, be debt- free. Enjoy life, good health, your purpose in life, always be thankful. Remember the Creator of the universe. 
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
1 Nov 24
i'm sorry pandemic affected you that much.
sometimes i feel like a child, sometimes i feel like i'm old and wise. just try to enjoy life - my suggestion 
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
2 Nov 24
Thank you! I have forgotten how to enjoy life! I will try to do that!
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
6 Nov 24
@anya12adwi doing a little something that puts you in a better mood can help a lot
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
6 Nov 24
@aureategloom I have forgotten my hobbies! Recently started reading novels and trying again learning painting from YT! Hopefully that helps my innerchild!
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@RevivedWarrior (3668)
• India
1 Nov 24
1. You will learn that you do not a lot of friends or people. You just a bunch who could be transparent , helpful and be there for you always.
2. Focus on a skill and start focusing on becoming financially independent.
3. Make it a habit to exercise 30 minutes a day apart from walking. It help you to have a better late 30s and a better 40s and beyond.
4. Buy assets and not liabilities. Learn personal finance and do not depend on others for same.
5. Be grateful to Almighty everyday for the journey so far and for removing obstacles in journey beyond. Faith can be tested in tough ways as we move forward in our journey.
6. Be productive with your time. Time is a big asset that can get spoiled. If used wisely , you can build health and wealth with it.
7. There could be people whom you loved , liked and cared so far . In your journey forward they may not be there with you , perhaps emotinally or physically
If you could get these set in stone , then your 30s should be stress free. Good luck!
@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
2 Nov 24
Thank you!! The last 6 points I need to work upon!
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
2 Nov 24
Take one day at a time, hold fast to your dreams.
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
4 Nov 24
There are many dreams who are conflicting with each other!
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
4 Nov 24
@anya12adwi The ones that matter most.
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
4 Nov 24
@popciclecold I still I am confused which dream of mine matters the most!
@luisadannointed (9486)
• Philippines
1 Nov 24
Lol! That's a nice thinking. But me? My mom told me that I am a bit mentally challenge I am old but I think like a five year old, sometimes my mom want to kick me out of the house. lol!
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
1 Nov 24
Same my mother too!! She would ask to get out of house when me and brother fight!!1 person likes this
@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
7 Nov 24
@TheHorse So you get a compliment as a reward!! You are really the smartest person here! 
@Dreamerby (9700)
• Calcutta, India
3 Nov 24
Haha! Yes the pandemic did take 3 years of my life! I am 21, mentally feeling 19
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
4 Nov 24
Really? I thought I was the only one and my friends talk about it! Only one feels the same!
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
4 Nov 24
@Dreamerby I was on bed and was under medication!
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@Dreamerby (9700)
• Calcutta, India
4 Nov 24
@anya12adwi Nope. Pandemic period I did nothing!
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@MelthySow (175)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 24
30 is a great time to grow and balance yourself.
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@anya12adwi (10264)
• India
5 Nov 24
Sure! At this age, being childish can show some serious issues!
