Deceased.

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Hi all, My friend just told me , his friend has died this morning. The poor man was very ill. So , it was expected. But, what is the right why to react when someone tells you , someone has died? For me, it is very simple. The person who dies is set free. No more pain, no more confusion. Goes on to a new beginning. Like being born again. Rest is peace. I envy them, they get to see what is on the other side. But I understand I cannot say this to others. What am I to say? I am sorry for you? I find lots of people to be very selfish when it comes to others dieing, others, meaning people who are very ill. Should they not be releived for the person who has died? This man could no longer walk, could not go out of the house. Could not eat much anymore, he looked like the walking dead. Poor man lungs were finished. He could hardly breath. My friend said I should call his son. But if I do that he will come here to my house and cry his eyes out ( a man of 45) , what am I suppose to say? He never looked after his father, he was to busy getting drunk because he could not take the stress. He did not want to visit his father in the hospital. It was to hard for him. What I do not understand. Am I such a terrible person??