ENERGIES

By eM
@eLsMarie (4479)
New Zealand
May 26, 2025 5:40pm CST
As cheating/infidelity has been a major issue with married couples, someone actually explained why men choose to cheat. He said that men want to be with women who can offer him a feminine energy while helping him bring out his masculine energy. The idea of a man being faithful to a much successful woman than him can hurt his ego and would cause him to have many insecurities. Later on, he will look at his woman as a competition and if all fails, he will look for a side chick who can offer him the needed 'energy.' What's your take on this matter?
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rakski
@rakski (146184)
• Philippines
27 May
I think there is more to that. But if a man or woman loves their other half, why would they cheat?
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eM
@eLsMarie (4479)
• New Zealand
27 May
I guess love isn't enough when respect is no longer valued.
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rakski
@rakski (146184)
• Philippines
28 May
@eLsMarie one can get out of the relationship instead of being cheated
Judy Story
@jstory07 (145329)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 May
If you really love someone than you should not look for another person to take their place. If you do than that is not love.
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eM
@eLsMarie (4479)
• New Zealand
27 May
True. Relationships now tend to be fleeting for some. By the time the benefits stop, some relationships tend to stop.
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snowy
@snowy22315 (194560)
• United States
27 May
I think both men and women cheat when they aren't getting the kind of attention and support they need from their partners. Something is missing.
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eM
@eLsMarie (4479)
• New Zealand
27 May
True. Some people focus more on what's missing than to actually face the problem/s.
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snowy
@snowy22315 (194560)
• United States
27 May
@eLsMarie Sometimes also the partner has no interest in fixing the problem. Other times the cheater is just unrealistic or bored
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eM
@eLsMarie (4479)
• New Zealand
31 May
@snowy22315 That's also the problem. Wonder why they initiate having a relationship when they can just be vocal about having casual relationships to avoid high expectations.